Mollycat....... I just had this vision when you mentioned that AF found you and you saying its not fair..........I had this vision of "mature" ladies... myself well and truley included ....... having AF turn up.... and it turning us into 2 year olds..... stamping our feet and screaming... throwing a "terrible twos" Tantrum (no smiley to picture this so you will have to use your imagination...... these big grown ups stamping their feet.... screaming.... like an oversized 2 year old.)....... Ohhhhh sorry...... maybe its just me ...... but it cracked me up. and still is
Angel Babies yep. I'm here stamping my feet. You made me smile. Thanks.
Actually, just asked DH if he was OK (he had a not so great day at work). He said yes, I told him I'm not.
HI guys!
just a question im on CD22 of a 28 day like clockwork cycle and im experiencing shooting pains up my cervix and alot of thick white lotion like discharge, could this possibly be symptoms, i dont expect pregnany ever again at this point but was just wondering if anyone experienced this at all.
ME 21 DP 21
TTC#1 for 2 years
one blighted ovum
CD 22 of 28 day cycle
currently undergoing fertility testing
I agree with angel and molly about the need for awareness. When I m/c all I could think about was that I didn't know anyone this had happened to. Until BB I had no one I could talk to who could understand.
hi lydia...i've had shooting pains up my cervix on and off since my m/c, but not with any discharge. I don't really know what it is but its occurring less and less frequently. Now it occurs around O time and during my period. Whenever I've mentioned it to my GP, she just made sure it wasn't infection, but didn't seemed to concerned about it otherwise. Sorry, I haven't really helped much.
Actually, I'm wondering if anyone else experienced worse period pain following m/c. I always got cramps the first couple of days. Now I have much worse cramps the first day or two and they come and go right through. Hmm...maybe my body is still adjusting
21 - one of my first pregnancy symptoms (especially with my first pregnancy) was thick white lotiony discharge, around the date AF was due. I had cramping on and off, don't remember if there were any shooting pains though.
Hannah- after my first m/c (natural m/c), AF was quite very light (only 2 days). Then I got pregnant again and m/c again (this time with a D&C). My first period after the D&C was very heavy, especially on the first day, but I didn't have any cramping. I am now going through the 2nd AF after the D&C and so far everything looks "normal", but I've realized that I have quite a few cramps (which I never had before). Weird...
AngelBabies . thank you for posting the info about the awareness day. I agree with everyone else, once you realize that you're not alone, things get a bit less difficult to bear. I had the urge to talk to everyone about my m/c's and I heard so many heartbreaking stories about m/c's and stillbirths. One of my friends (she is already in her 60s now) said she has had 2 m/c's and a stillbirth and it almost ate her up. In those days there was no Internet and no online communities and people just didn't talk about it.
Oh, and AngelBabies, you are SO right about AF showing up...mine did 3 days ago and I hated her for it (I always hate her. I'm looking forward to the weekend when she will have said her goodbyes and I hope to not see her again for 9 months!!!!
hannah--Sorry to hear you're feeling so down I hope you sleep better tonight. So you're the one stealing all our daylight! DST is about to end over here... gets dark by 7 now. I've had fluctuating periods ever since m/c... some are really light, while others are extremely heavy and clotty ( sorry ). When it's heavy, I've noticed that my cramps are much worse. I'm sure your body it just trying to get itself back to normal.... hope it happens quickly for you!
Angel--Thanks for the Remembrance Day info. Ordered myself a remembrance pin this am, and also one for a girl that helped me out with the bookfair, and also with the 6th grade fundraising... I believe she had 3 or 4 m/c's. Just thought she might like it.... Think I'm going to buy a big candle when I go downtown, as well, so that I can keep it lit throughout the day on the 15th. Thanks, again, Angel!
mollycat--Awww, hon, I'm so sorry that d@mn witch found you! How the hell did she get through my force field? You go ahead and throw a tantrum all you like--you can't always be strong, and I know it's frustrating how long you've been dealing with this! Hope you feel better!
Easha--I know I'll be there on Friday! *raising hand* Hey, your temps still look good, so chin up! Don't give up just yet!
Milla--Hope AF is taking it easy on you! Good luck this next cycle, hope it brings you your BFP!!
smi--Good Thursday morning to you! Tomorrow's Friday!! Can't wait!
Krystie--Always thinking of you, and hoping you feel better soon! I'm SO sorry you've been so I have to be honest and say I don't envy you! I would love to be pg, but just can't get myself to look forward to m/s no matter what! Little Chyan's already making her presence known in a big way--which is a good thing, but can't help but feel sorry for you for feeling so ill! Love ya and miss ya Pill Girl! Hope you can make it to Friday chat! *kiss*
Mollycat and hannah - big hugs girls, you sound like you both could do with some so plenty coming over your way
Just to say that I am quite open about my m/c's IRL. Purposefully done so that it gives an opening to anyone who might be "in the closet" on the subject. It is far more common than I ever realised before I m/c.
I'm planning to chat tonight, although the fact that i am already up at this time and I can't sleep might make things a touch difficult. I would like to at least try to come on for a bit. Jen - how has our day-light savings affected you? We have gone forward an hour so does that mean I need to stay up til 11.30pm (new time) instead of 10.30pm? Someone pls enlighten this mush of a brain.....lol.....!
plc - honey I remember that chicken soup recipe so well! It is so lovely to see you again - thanks so much for your support.
Mollycat - I am so sorry darling - AF arrives on her freakin' broom and proceeds to belt us with the handle.
Hannah honey - I hope your pain eases - my first period was actually OK but I think that was more to do with being on a mountain in the lotus position (well cross legged anyway; until my ankles got sore).
Milla - I am with you on the 9 month AF holiday. Enough ALREADY.
Easha - "just keep going" is our silent mantra - well that and "Die evil AF witch die". I hope you are wrong about her this month sweetheart.
Angel Babies - Thanks for the remembrance day update - you always share these wonderful things with us - thank you. I was howling with laughter at your toilet tanty!
21 - Thank you so much - he truly is an angel
Jen805 - Honey - I hope this is your month
AFM - we got the autopsy results on Wednesday morning and I think you guys will understand how hard it was to hear that Charles was perfect. He was fully formed and everything was normal. It was a spike in infection in me that caused the m/c. I feel so sad but also hopeful because it means that we can make beautiful, normal babies. I just need to hold on to them.
Went to see FS yesterday and she is not really happy with my endometrium this cycle (7mm) so she is taking over my cycle (back on syneral) after I surge and looking at FET transfer next month.
Love to you all
Adele
Megsmum - wishing you all the best for your scan this morning
Dellydoo - maybe we should take hold of the broom and belt her back Sorry to hear about Charles' result. It gives you an answer and hope, but doesn't make it any better at the moment. All the best with your cycle next month.
thanks hannahd for the info, also I had my d and c in may and since then every period i have had has gotten worse! i never had cramps before the procedure now i get sore breast sometimes 2 weeks before ( i hate it coz i always think its a pregnancy symptom) and cramps before, during and a much much heavier longer period. I think my body changed after thats all i can think of!
also milla thanks for the info, it gave me ...slight ....hope
now im on CD 23 and the sharp pains are more frequent, i sometimes get them while i HAVE af but never before and it started a week before its due so im stumped, since d and c every month im always 28 days but keep getting different things happening! i am not going to test unless i am late, im going to start vitamin b6 next cycle and it will be my 2nd cycle using the fertility monitor ( didnt get a peak this month) so hopefully that will help! good luck guys! also I found out my partner may be going to the middle east for an army term in Feb 2009 and we dont know whether to keep actively trying or just see what happens or stop all together! so confused!
tried to post yesterday, but laptop was playing up!
Megsmum - good luck with the scan today, for you.
Dellydoo - I am lost for words, but please know my thoughts are with you.
to everyone else
AFM - Starting to get a little nervous with my nuchal scan on Monday, this is the final big test for me and just hoping everything works out. I have plans to fly to Cairns on Friday to see my beautiful niece for her 1st birthday, really want to be there for her big event so I'm ok.
larz - GL for Monday. Am sure Bub is doing fine. Can't wait to hear how it all goes cause I just know you're going to be beaming when we hear from you.
The news is all good from me One 20mm follicle and a 10mm one, so we are right to go for the IUI on Sunday! Thank goodness, I thought we'd never get there. Fred has to the most slow growing follicle in history LOL But crikey you should see me now. When she had taken my blood, the nurse put a bandaid on my arm because it had just about stopped bleeding. So I got up picked my handbag and then gushed blood everywhere All over me and the floor! And yesterday I stubbed my little toe on a chair and it's really sore today too. So I now have a hobble and a bandaged arm as well Oh well, we have finally gotten there, so I am very happy and relieved.
larz - All the very best for your scan! Stay positive, all will be well!
21 - I hope the pains are a good sign I've never had anything like that so can't really help, but anything is possible. Good luck!
HannahD - Good on you for telling him, I'm at the stage now where if it comes up I just tell people about my m/c too. I agree with the other ladies, if we just hide it then the subject will always be "taboo". It's amazing (but really sad) the number of ladies who tell you that they have also had one whe you tell them about yours. I hope your cramps ease up soon.
Jen - Thanks for that cycle buddy Will be joining you in the TWW on Sunday - finally!!
dellydoo - I'm so very sorry about your darling Charles hun I wish I could say something to help. All the very best for your FET, you will have a baby to hold soon I'm sure!
mollycat - Stupid AF!! I'm sorry she's knocking you around You'd think she'd know she's not wanted by now!! I get the horrible headaches the first couple of days of AF too, so I know how you feel.
plc - Hi there!
Easha - I hope AF stays away for you!
Hi to everyone else that I've missed! Hope you all have a nice weekend!!
....... having AF turn up.... and it turning us into 2 year olds..... stamping our feet and screaming... throwing a "terrible twos" Tantrum (no smiley to picture this so you will have to use your imagination...... these big grown ups stamping their feet.... screaming.... like an oversized 2 year old.)....... Ohhhhh sorry...... maybe its just me ...... but it cracked me up.
and still is
I am soooooo happy for you. 
I hope you sleep better tonight. So you're the one stealing all our daylight! 
DST is about to end over here... gets dark by 7 now. I've had fluctuating periods ever since m/c... some are really light, while others are extremely heavy and clotty ( sorry 
). When it's heavy, I've noticed that my cramps are much worse. I'm sure your body it just trying to get itself back to normal.... hope it happens quickly for you!
Hope you feel better! 
Can't wait!
I have to be honest and say I don't envy you! I would love to be pg, but just can't get myself to look forward to m/s no matter what! Little Chyan's already making her presence known in a big way--which is a good thing, but can't help but feel sorry for you for feeling so ill! Love ya and miss ya Pill Girl! Hope you can make it to Friday chat! *kiss*
to everyone else
All over me and the floor! And yesterday I stubbed my little toe on a chair and it's really sore today too. So I now have a hobble and a bandaged arm as well 
Oh well, we have finally gotten there, so I am very happy and relieved.
Will be joining you in the TWW on Sunday - finally!!
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