How are we all? Just wanting to come in here and see how you are all going. Miss you all something crazy.
Sorry for all those with AF, hopefully this is the last time she visits.
Congrats to those with a bFp "Sez"
Hope you catch that egg to those who are ovulating.
And big hugs to those in the tww!
But just between you and me, we are actually trying atm (yes again), just meaining letting nature take its course, am not temping or anything, and not using protection. But as long as i have it in my head that we are not "officially" trying until next year i wont go crazy with the tww and "O'ing" etc.
Crazy things have been going on around here atm, but nothing i cant handle.
I just wanna quit my job and come back here, where I was happy, where everything seemed to be normal. Rick and i didnt stress as much as we do now, The only thing good about working is the money, but even then some weeks just havnt been worth it.
Ive gotten quite sick, with suspected whooping cough (but luckily enough didnt have it), but still am sick 4weeks later!! Work seems to have taken over my life at the moment and i cant seem to find the road to take me back, iykwim.
My urge to have a baby grows so much more each day, Rick and i had a d&m about marriage the other night, and what really got me was that, i was really against marriage before i got with him, he changed my mind about it, i grew to love that "one day" we are goin to be husband and wife, but his views hasnt changed at all, he doesnt want to be married, he says he isnt ready, if he aint ready for marriage how in the hell can he be ready for a baby?? I dont get it.....it really got to me......so much it even entered my head to pack my bags......but i didnt. Then on Saturday night at a party, Rick and i caught up with a few mates we havnt seem in a few yrs, there was a couple there engagaed, but they were not planning on actually getting married, they both settled that the engagement was enough of a committment, and when Rick and i spoke about it, I said to him "thats what i have been telling you for the last 12months, thats all im after is commitment, especially if we are going to have a family, I need to know you are committed to this relationship etc", and he was like oh ok then thats not so bad! and kissed me, I have no idea what that means im way to scared to bring it up again, this whole baby and marriage thing is getting to much for me most times lately. ANd living here is driving a wedge through everything, i litterely came so close to packing my bags and saying screw this im moving home with mum, cos i couldnt handle it. But things are on the mend slowly, as more plans are made.
Oh my gosh, talk about dribbiling crap, i guess its that i havnt spoken to anyone about this at all and knew you guys would understand.
I am just so thrilled for you that is wonderful news, i hear you on the not wanting to celebrate to early but a line is a line my friend! Well done to you and your DH! And thanks for holding my hand next week for my scan!
Michelle, How are you going honey????
Lisa, How are you doing hope AF is still staying away and i am sending you loads and loads of ***sticky baby dust***
Shan, Im glad that your EDD birthday went as well as it could. I was thinking about you! Wow you are so lucky to be so involved with your girlfriends birth! That was so lovely but im sure that it was a hard thing to do with all that you have gone through.
Megan, Im not sure about your cycle but i was told that AF isnt officially started until its full flow. I hope that your body gets sorted soon.
Naomi, Great to see you back and i hope that everything gets sorted in your relationship very soon. I also hope that once thats done you get your BFP pronto!
I'M SOOOOOO EXCITED TO HAVE YOU COMING OVER TO PAML!!!
Tell me everything, what did DH say? Have you told your family? When are you going to see the Dr? What is your EDD going to be? Are you going to find out if you're having a girl or a boy?These are all questions that I MUST know!
Thanks so much for your congrats everyone! Just seeing all your good wishes here makes it more real.
Jayne, dh is happy, but I think more nervous than me! Mind you, I did get some more comments about super-swimmers - men LOL! Haven't *officially* told anyone yet, but I did tell my mum about the m/s so she is convinced I'm pg, just haven't told her about the test yet. I will ring my Ob tomorrow to make an appt. Not sure when he'll want to see me. Last time it was quite early, before six weeks, but maybe not this time? All I know is that he will send me for an u/s @ 8 weeks. As far as I can tell, my EDD will be 01/06/07!!!!!! WOW! Don't know why but that's scary! Definitely not going to find out the sex! But we do already have our names chosen (except girl middle name). Do those answers satisfy?!!!!!!! Hope you are well today, are you *finding out*?
Lisa, how are you holding up hun? It's so stressful waiting, isn't it? I have everything possible crossed for you for Thursday. Biggest ever , can't wait to hear your news! Please come to PAML with me, I'll miss you if you don't...........
Tanya, really hope af shows up soon........maybe if we keep saying that she will! Good on you for enjoying yourself on Saturday!
Kelly, thanks for all your reassurance over the weekend. Can't wait to join you in PAML, don't think I will just yet though.
Kate, what's going on? Is thursday testing day or what? I am sending out so much baby dust for you and Lisa this week, it's not funny! Can't you smell it?!!!!!!!
Thanks Shan, I'm glad Saturday was okay for you hun. Where do you think you'll settle in Melb? I remember you saying it won't be too close to the city!!!!!! Your symptoms are sounding quite good. How late is af? When do you think you'll test? Best wishes sweets!
Thanks Megan, though some people may still class me as loopy! As far as I know, you should count your first day of *full flow* as CD1. Spotting does not count. Someone might like to correct me on that, but I'm pretty sure that's what they tell you on FF. Someone will let you know, there's a few girls on here who know more than they want to know about spotting! Do you know when you Od? I hear you on the frustration. I thought my cycle would never get back to normal after my d&c. It would appear that it didn't matter after all! I should have saved myself alot of stress LOL!
Sarah, can't wait to say hi to you in two threads! I hope you are going well and not too worried about next week.
Naomi, I don't think we've met so 'hi' and thanks for the congrats. I understand a little where you're coming from. Dh and I were together for six years before we got engaged and then got married 8 months later! Initially he just didn't want to get married, and then he did but thought I was too young. Mostly we just didn't dicuss it, and eventually it happened. I am now so glad we waited because (unfortunately!) I think he was right, I WAS very young. Once we were engaged he couldn't wait to get married, and is now so proud of his wedding ring! It really cracks me up, he's so sweet! But it's a real turnaround from a few years ago (not that we were ever unhappy, just didn't think we would get married IYKWIM?), so hang in there sweets, as long as you love each other and you are happy with Rick, it will all work out. Keep us updated
Belle, what's going on? Are those OPKs showing two lines yet? I might have to go and stalk your chart after this post LOL!
Thanks Kirsty, Michelle and Kez how are you guys going?
I want to say big big thanks to all of you lovely ladies in this thread who have kept me sane and laughing along this road! I would never wish to have a mc, but the upside is that I found all of you and now I can drag you all along to PAML with me when I'm ready to go! Please don't kick me out yet! I'm still way too nervous and scared, but at the same time, feeling quite positive about this pregnancy. So big to all of you and lots and lots of Babydust!
Belle, just checked out your chart. Try not to stress, I know it's hard. The bleeding will stop, and O day will come! I didn't O this cycle until about day 27! So although it's a long wait, it could well be worth it! for you honey.
YAY YOU SEZ!!!! How excitement!!
I'm sure you'll be POAS until that line is as dark as dark BUT it doesn't matter because any line will do!!!! I'm so happy to hear your news and also glad to hear that you are feeling positive about this preg. The power of positive thinking is not something to be dismissed.
Make sure you keep us all posted here-- would love to be joining you in the coming weeks! I have everything crossed for a STICKY one for you this time
, can't wait to hear your news! Please come to PAML with me, I'll miss you if you don't...........
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