thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
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    Ruthie - OMG we are all for you, don't stress too much yet. If you haven't had any extreme pain you may be ok. Get yourself to the ER now!!! and we are all here for you

  2. #2
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    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Ruthie

    Just wanted to say I am for you and try to remember that whatever happens it is out of your control and that it is nothing that you have done.

    It is normal for some women to bleed during their pregnancy so try to stay clam until you get some answers. I know its a hard time but please dont give up. I am here if you need someone to talk to.

  3. #3
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    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    low positive anticardiolipin antibodies

    Hi ladies,

    Since DH and I will be ttc again after AF stops I have been thinking about my blood tests from the FS. My blood test for anticardiolipin antibodies was a low positive but the FS said not to worry about it however it is concerning as I dont want to have another miscarriage.

    I have been reading some studies about taking baby asprin to help reduce the anticardiolipin antibodies and thought why wouldn't the FS tell me to take it just in case. Just was wondering on your thoughts?

    Thank you

  4. #4

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    We still don't know what caused the fire and wont know tomarrow, There was no lighter in the jeans no paper just a normal wash. theres over 10 deaths and 10 injerys each year due to dryer fires.. We had the matnince people confuesd on what caused it.

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    Aug 2008
    Sydney
    125

    Babyfever
    Sorry to hear about your fire but glad that your all okay with your quick thinking and using the car as a safe haven for your children. Hope it didn't do to much damage

  6. #6
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    Oct 2007
    Brisbane
    320

    Ruth darling
    I had bleeding at week 10 that turned out to be a subchorionic haemotoma. Sweetheart if your waters have not broken and you have not miscarried the doctors may be able to put in a cervical cerclage. I hope all is OK sweetheart
    Adele

  7. #7
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    Mar 2008
    306

    Oh Ruth!! I wish I were there .... like Jen said just focus positively on bubby. I am thinking of you and sending lots of your way. Did you get to the ER? Your post was a while ago so I'm hoping that you are there already and have had some reassurance.

    Sorry that you have had to go through this extra stress - keep us posted please

    xx

  8. #8
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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    I almost forgot...I have an appointment today with FS...I am keeping the appointment even though Lee & I are seperated...you think that was a wise choice?

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    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Sorry girls, will be busy at the school this am, but will be back in the afternoon to do persies! Thinking of you all!



    Special for Angel and Krystie--thanks for this am, it helped a lot! And Krystie, the avatar.... still speechless! Super duper for you both!


    Ok, will be back later for the rest! Sorry, just really busy!

  10. #10
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    May 2008
    U.S.A
    186

    Ruthie I'm praying really hard for you right now !!! I pray things are ok ...

  11. #11
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    Oct 2007
    Brisbane
    320

    Oh Ladies, what lovely messages to wake up to.
    Kyrstie - I honestly think having BB to focus on forces you to not only acknowledge what your feeling but that other people need help too. My DP is working in Sydney during the week and I am on my own. Without BB I think it would be far too easy to concentrate on how rubbish I am feeling.
    PLC - that is such good news 22 weeks darling that is simply wonderful!
    Ruth - that is comforting news - I have been told I have to have a cerclage for my next pregnancy. I have been reading loads of stuff online about it. I can send you some website links if you like.
    Smi - go to see your FS darling, it is your body after all.

    OK - My goal for the day is to not be wearing a dressing gown at lunch time. Oh yes I am setting the bar high today!
    Hugs to you all and have a fab weekend
    Adele

  12. #12
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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Cycle List for 7th September
    Happy father's day to all your dad's, DH's, DF's, DP's etc... This is the best father's day EVER!!!

    WTH - CD11
    Babyfever - CD11
    Jen - CD14
    Megsmum - CD20 IUI
    Easha - CD21

    Mollycat - 11DPO
    Angel Babies - 12DPO
    Joey CD19 TWW
    Chappas - TWW

    KrystieLove - 3w5d
    Toccara - 5w(ish)
    Rachel - 5w(ish)
    Leyza - 5w3d
    FifiClaire - 6w5d
    pbstar - 7w2d
    Tutmae - 8w3d
    Ruthie - 10w3d
    Tina - 14w2d
    AJC - 19w6d
    Canary - 21w5d
    plc - 22w1d
    Katiegirl - 31w1d
    Nickster - 33w3d

  13. #13
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    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    Wink I'm Obsessed - HELP!!!

    Hi Girls.

    I'm really struggling during this TWW. I haven't got a coverline yet, cause I have had some pain in the a$$ temps that have been really low. I am pretty sure that I Oed on CD15 or CD16 cause all my signs and symptoms line up for those days. But I read a book that talked about visualising and how it can be helpful to convince your body to be UTD, but I am waking up in the middle of the night an imagining it and I am thinking about it constantly and I can't think about anything else. Ahhhhhhhhhh!! I am planning on having a BT on Thursday (7DPO) to see what my prog levels are so I can decide if I need the pesseries this month or not, and secretly praying that there will also be some hCG registering at that time, as my BT referral is for prog and hCG!!!! So I figured that coming back to BB couldn't hurt. Maybe it would even help?? Who knows??

    Have been following everyone a little bit over the last couple of weeks, and it was horrible to hear what you have been through Ruthie. I really hope that everything works out well for you. Perhaps you could try the positive visualisation?? Take care hunny

    That is a beautiful photo of your little bubba, AJC. How lucky you are!

    Chappas - Hope everything is ok with DH.

    KL - What was with the sly BFP? Where was all the bells and whistles? I'll be ordering fireworks for mine when it comes!! Congrat honey. :woot: How did you find out so early??

    Jen - I think that you can read them after the 3 mins (even though it says not to). I'd mark it as a +ve - but that's just me. Especially if the following ones are getting lighter and not darker.

    EmmyKate - We tried straight away too, so don't think that you are odd. I Oed 2 weeks after my 5.5wk MC, so may be you will too? I got preg straight away too, but then MCed at 4.5wks. Then the next month got a BFN and this month I am in the TWW and am holding my breath. I really hope that your stay here is nice and short.

    Mollycat - Congrats on your bridesmaid invite!!

    Toccara - What??? I can't beleive that. I feel so sad for you. Take as much time as you need, go to bed, get some movies, and spend some quality time with DH. Whatever you want to do. I agree with Angel - go to the ER, may be they can do something??

    KL - Call your OB. You know what's best for you. If you are low on prog, they will give you some prog pesseries. Please please please!!!

    Hannah - Hi and welcome. Sorry to hear of your loss. Hope your stay here is short. Good to hear that you are staying positive.

    Take care girls.
    Lots of sticky vibes for those of you UTD and baby dust for those of you BDing!!!
    Last edited by joey123; September 8th, 2008 at 03:50 PM.