thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Van--Welcome back! Sorry to hear about DH's little issue, but wish you all the best with your IUI today!! Sending you lots of



    Angel Chyan--Today's the day! I'm saying so many for you! Stay away AF! Sending lots of anti-AF vibes, and bucket loads of



    larz & fifi--Sorry the lemon didn't work! I tried! I'll never be one to say I'm jealous of your m/s! It's a miserable feeling, and I hope you both feel better soon! Hey, fifi, are you working hard, or hardly working??? LOL....



    Leyza--Oh no! Don't panic... I know it's hard... I hope you got into the ER and the bleeding has ceased! Thinking of you and saying mega for you and your little one!

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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
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    Good morning gurlies!

    First and foremost...to each of you wonderful ladies with child...RELAX AND BREATHE!!! You MUST try to stay calm...be positive...it's tough to do BUT you have to!

    Thank you for all you thoughts and prayers...my family and I appreciate the kindness...

    Tocarra...I sure hope you're okay



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    Emmykate--My dr. advised me to wait 2 cycles, but after extensive research I found that there's usually no medical reason (especially without a D&C) why you can't TTC again right away. They say it's to help build up a healthy lining in your uterus, but I've heard lots of women going in for scans and it showing a healthy lining. You're also very fertile after a m/c! Some women are able to fall pg again right away and go on to enjoy a healthy, happy pg'cy. We began TTC right away.... still trying after 6 cycles, but the point was that we began when we felt ready... now if only my body were half as ready as my brain! I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide--it's your body, and you'll know when you're ready!



    joey--Good luck finding that dodgy coverline! :goodluck2:



    Krystie Chyan--Saw your inquiry to Astrolady about your avi! Hope you get her soon! So how were your appt's? Missed you in chat this am! Hello sweet little Chyan... Auntie Jen Jen is sending you some *kiss*



    Hey smi--Hope your Tue. is better than your Monday! Will send you more e-mails when I get some--they've been few and far between lately!



    Toccara--Saying lots of for you and your little one! Hope you're doing ok, hon!

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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
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    fifi: I was just like you when I was 6 weeks.. I'm sure your bub is here to stay. Try to calm down and think positive. Distract yourself with a good book or something... look up fetal development and the week you are in...it's always super cool to read about the milestones your bub is doing this week!!! I am praying all is well with you and your baby will be perfectly ok till your time is due to hold and cherish your baby in your arms!!! Good luck sweets!!

    Babyfever: Good luck with those follicles/ eggies.. so two huh??..twins maybe??..WOOT WOOT!!!! Awesome!!! Am sending you my very best wishes and girl BD like a maniac... can't wait for your BFP!!!!

    Leyza: go to ER ASAP!!! for you and bub to be ok!!! Please hope its just nothing.. when I went to ER on Thurs they said the bleeding could have been anything from irritation of the cervix from sex or just broken blood vessels... but since I was cramping doc said to go to OBGYN to see if my cervix is not opening.. cuz if it is ( I will get checked tomorrow) then I will need it stitched up to give baby a chance to make it!
    Good luck to you and please keep us posted! 1am praying for you and your baby to be just fine!!


    Larz , Megsmum: Thank you sweets.... I will let you know how it goes tomorrow. Am super nervous but am very hopeful I see a live baby I will be 11 weeks tomorrow. And super excited hubby will see the baby.. again hoping and praying all will be good news so I can celebrate my Bday in peace and happily on Sunday! thank you ladies so much!


    Krystielove: Thank you so much momma!! OMG I'm so happy your HCG count is GREAT!!!!
    Sending you my very best wishes!!!

    Vanaithi: Missed ya woman!! Good luck with your IUI!!! Can't wait for your BFP!!!! ♥ My best wishes always!!

    To all my other friends here... Wishing you all the best and I will post tomorrow how my docs visit goes.. am super nervous yet am hopeful bub is ok and swimming in there!!


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    Aug 2008
    Somerset - UK
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    Thanks Ruthie, must be hormones cause your comments bought tears to my eyes lol.

    I have my good book, and i have my DF making a nice cheesecake at the moment so i can chill in style!! so wonderful living with a chef

    your doc appointment goes ok tomorrow!!

    xx

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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
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    fifi:..Oh hun.. it's totally understandable... I know what is going though your mind. But I'm sure your baby is here to stay!!! ♥
    Oh them hormones.. I cried like 10 times yesterday at the stupidest commercials.. heheeh I like watching baby shows on Discovery health and cried at each and every delivery!!!

    Cheesecake!!! YUMMMMM!!! Now you made me hungry and all drooly...
    Good luck hun.. I know how you feel and I feel like that too.. just am praying hard for both of our babies to be just fine. They are swimming in there!!!!

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    USA, Kansas
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    Fifi-I pray that your bubs is Okay hun & that you will be able to relax and enjoy your pregnancy. I havn't fallen pregnant again yet after the recent loss I had But, I do know its scary I lost a baby at 19 W exactly over 3 years ago and Its been hard everytime I fell pregnant I was always afraid to see the nightmear I had happen. I know its hard to hear and say to yourself try to relax. But sometimes when you stress out more its not good on the baby nor you either. I really hope baby is well darling and I will keep you in my prayers.. KUP.

    Rutie-How are you feeling darling? Any plans for the weekend? I'm gonna be sleeping in and relaxing hoepfully. I'm due to get progesterone check on CD 21 & I guess they wont put me on Progesterone till I find out I'm pregnant.

    As for me-I had that Trigger in my Arm and its a little sore but not much. I tested yesterday with 2 faint lines on HPT I said "Dang that stuff gets in there fast" This morning HUGE two lines as dark as control line. I know its the shot doing it but its amazing how things like that work so fast. I will be retesting on Monday or Tuesday to see if the trigger has left my system yet. Then I know once its BFN and goes back to BFP I will know I'm pregnant. I have to get progesterone check on CD 21. And once I get my BFP I'll probably get on progesteone

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    Jun 2008
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    babyfever: Oh yah.. I got that shot when I was TTC my son and OMG!! it is so fast to show up... just give it a week or two and then tests if you get something then it can be the real deal!! Sending you my very best wishes &
    Well My Birthday is on Sunday so my only plans is to go out and celebrate anywhere..hheehehehe But tomorrow I have a doc appointment to see how things have been going since my ER scare..and am praying for good news.. if baby is ok hubby will see the baby for the 1st time and am excited about that. I will be 11 weeks on the dot tomorrow so am happy about that. other than that.. I think all my happiness will depend on my docs visit tomorrow. so am super nervous.. just wanting the day to fly by so I can go and see if all is ok in there.
    to you and Good luck sweets!!!! ♥