Am feeling so scared at the moment, am 7 weeks today, and it was 7/8 weeks that we lost little bub last time. I'm taking things so easy, making DF do all the housework and i'm just getting home from work and getting into bed.
The sickness is still here with a passion (The lemons didnt work ) and insomnia is still looming around, although, i did sleep the whole night through last night
Still having a few troubles with my back, but seems to be getting better.
Sending to Toccara, where are you, hope everything is ok.
Hi Fificlare - Good to hear that you are taking it easy and that DH is being supportive during this difficult time. Sounds like you are doing everything just right. Positive thoughts will help you through. I know I am going to regret when I get to my MC weeks too. Take care honey
Emmykate - My GP told me to wait 2-3 cycles before TTC, but when I said that I might not want to wait that long she went down to at least one. The main reason is so that the pregnancy could be dated more reliably. I waited the one month just so that I could feel that my body was back to normal.
Van--Welcome back! Sorry to hear about DH's little issue, but wish you all the best with your IUI today!! Sending you lots of
Angel Chyan--Today's the day! I'm saying so many for you! Stay away AF! Sending lots of anti-AF vibes, and bucket loads of
larz & fifi--Sorry the lemon didn't work! I tried! I'll never be one to say I'm jealous of your m/s! It's a miserable feeling, and I hope you both feel better soon! Hey, fifi, are you working hard, or hardly working??? LOL....
Leyza--Oh no! Don't panic... I know it's hard... I hope you got into the ER and the bleeding has ceased! Thinking of you and saying mega for you and your little one!
First and foremost...to each of you wonderful ladies with child...RELAX AND BREATHE!!! You MUST try to stay calm...be positive...it's tough to do BUT you have to!
Thank you for all you thoughts and prayers...my family and I appreciate the kindness...
Emmykate--My dr. advised me to wait 2 cycles, but after extensive research I found that there's usually no medical reason (especially without a D&C) why you can't TTC again right away. They say it's to help build up a healthy lining in your uterus, but I've heard lots of women going in for scans and it showing a healthy lining. You're also very fertile after a m/c! Some women are able to fall pg again right away and go on to enjoy a healthy, happy pg'cy. We began TTC right away.... still trying after 6 cycles, but the point was that we began when we felt ready... now if only my body were half as ready as my brain! I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide--it's your body, and you'll know when you're ready!
joey--Good luck finding that dodgy coverline! :goodluck2:
Krystie Chyan--Saw your inquiry to Astrolady about your avi! Hope you get her soon! So how were your appt's? Missed you in chat this am! Hello sweet little Chyan... Auntie Jen Jen is sending you some *kiss*
Hey smi--Hope your Tue. is better than your Monday! Will send you more e-mails when I get some--they've been few and far between lately!
Toccara--Saying lots of for you and your little one! Hope you're doing ok, hon!
fifi: I was just like you when I was 6 weeks.. I'm sure your bub is here to stay. Try to calm down and think positive. Distract yourself with a good book or something... look up fetal development and the week you are in...it's always super cool to read about the milestones your bub is doing this week!!! I am praying all is well with you and your baby will be perfectly ok till your time is due to hold and cherish your baby in your arms!!! Good luck sweets!!
Babyfever: Good luck with those follicles/ eggies.. so two huh??..twins maybe??..WOOT WOOT!!!! Awesome!!! Am sending you my very best wishes and girl BD like a maniac... can't wait for your BFP!!!!
Leyza: go to ER ASAP!!! for you and bub to be ok!!! Please hope its just nothing.. when I went to ER on Thurs they said the bleeding could have been anything from irritation of the cervix from sex or just broken blood vessels... but since I was cramping doc said to go to OBGYN to see if my cervix is not opening.. cuz if it is ( I will get checked tomorrow) then I will need it stitched up to give baby a chance to make it!
Good luck to you and please keep us posted! 1am praying for you and your baby to be just fine!!
Larz , Megsmum: Thank you sweets.... I will let you know how it goes tomorrow. Am super nervous but am very hopeful I see a live baby I will be 11 weeks tomorrow. And super excited hubby will see the baby.. again hoping and praying all will be good news so I can celebrate my Bday in peace and happily on Sunday! thank you ladies so much!
Krystielove: Thank you so much momma!! OMG I'm so happy your HCG count is GREAT!!!! Sending you my very best wishes!!!
Vanaithi: Missed ya woman!! Good luck with your IUI!!! Can't wait for your BFP!!!! ♥ My best wishes always!!
To all my other friends here... Wishing you all the best and I will post tomorrow how my docs visit goes.. am super nervous yet am hopeful bub is ok and swimming in there!!
fifi:..Oh hun.. it's totally understandable... I know what is going though your mind. But I'm sure your baby is here to stay!!! ♥
Oh them hormones.. I cried like 10 times yesterday at the stupidest commercials.. heheeh I like watching baby shows on Discovery health and cried at each and every delivery!!!
Cheesecake!!! YUMMMMM!!! Now you made me hungry and all drooly...
Good luck hun.. I know how you feel and I feel like that too.. just am praying hard for both of our babies to be just fine. They are swimming in there!!!!
Fifi-I pray that your bubs is Okay hun & that you will be able to relax and enjoy your pregnancy. I havn't fallen pregnant again yet after the recent loss I had But, I do know its scary I lost a baby at 19 W exactly over 3 years ago and Its been hard everytime I fell pregnant I was always afraid to see the nightmear I had happen. I know its hard to hear and say to yourself try to relax. But sometimes when you stress out more its not good on the baby nor you either. I really hope baby is well darling and I will keep you in my prayers.. KUP.
Rutie-How are you feeling darling? Any plans for the weekend? I'm gonna be sleeping in and relaxing hoepfully. I'm due to get progesterone check on CD 21 & I guess they wont put me on Progesterone till I find out I'm pregnant.
As for me-I had that Trigger in my Arm and its a little sore but not much. I tested yesterday with 2 faint lines on HPT I said "Dang that stuff gets in there fast" This morning HUGE two lines as dark as control line. I know its the shot doing it but its amazing how things like that work so fast. I will be retesting on Monday or Tuesday to see if the trigger has left my system yet. Then I know once its BFN and goes back to BFP I will know I'm pregnant. I have to get progesterone check on CD 21. And once I get my BFP I'll probably get on progesteone
babyfever: Oh yah.. I got that shot when I was TTC my son and OMG!! it is so fast to show up... just give it a week or two and then tests if you get something then it can be the real deal!! Sending you my very best wishes & ♥
Well My Birthday is on Sunday so my only plans is to go out and celebrate anywhere..hheehehehe But tomorrow I have a doc appointment to see how things have been going since my ER scare..and am praying for good news.. if baby is ok hubby will see the baby for the 1st time and am excited about that. I will be 11 weeks on the dot tomorrow so am happy about that. other than that.. I think all my happiness will depend on my docs visit tomorrow. so am super nervous.. just wanting the day to fly by so I can go and see if all is ok in there. to you and Good luck sweets!!!! ♥
Wow - Not a lot of activity last night. I thought this catch up was going to make me late for school!!
Jen - dodgy is definately the word See below
AFM - SORE BOOB (yes, just one) TODAY YAY!!! And starting to feel a LITTLE bit heavy. Finally got a coverline this morning, but I don't agree with it. What do you think? Can you please have a look at my chart everyone??? My OPK, Ferning, and CM all say that I O on CD16, but cause of my temps, FF says that I O on CD 18. Which still gives me a "good" score for conceiving, but I want to know how many DPO I am. May be I should override it?? Thinking of going for BT on Friday morning. Latest possible day (we're going up the coast on Friday afternoon, for the weekend, so want to know whether to take the prog up with me or not).
Ruthie-Yeah I just spent $60 on 5 boxes of 3 tests of FRER since this is my first time having the trigger that way I can know when the test will be out next cycle if this one is a bust and wont have to spend a lot on HPTS, I'm giving up my addiction for once. I really hope this cycle I get pregnant with a sticky bean that way I dont have to go through all this again. We BD yesterday and again today and will again tonight and tomarrow. Were pushing for a baby boy but with the BD before + OPK Im kinda worried about another girl. But, whatever I get I will be happy as long as he/she is healthy. I might be a litlte ****ed at first but. I will become better :-). Oh I pray that all goes well, Get some pictures if you can and post them On BB!!!.. Cannot wait to see little Rutie or MR Ruitie not sure what your real name is (or remember) But thats his/hers nickname.. .
Joey- I believe you would be about 6DPO today darling. Since you had that one day of + and other negitive and the scoop I say you need to use override and put CD 16 as O day... USually the day after your + your temp spikes...
just back from my iui today at 8.30 - it went well! doc said dh's sample is good & i had a bit of watery cm too - i should be o'ing within the next 5 hours...
thanks eveyone for the warm welcome! it sure feels good to be back!
i've got to go back to bed now... chilling out for the day to relax my body for the meeting of egg & sperm...
I'm having a D&C tomorrow I been bleeding since Sunday night I only passed a few clots so they are going do the D&C and clean everything out ... I may try to have a baby in year or so but I'm not sure after having two losses in 4 months I'm to hurt mentally and physically to even think about it right now I hope if I do decide to try again when I come back all you girls are gone from this forum because you got the bubs you have been praying for thanks for all your prayers and showing me so much love
Oh Toccara honey I am so devastated for you. That's just not fair! Have you had another ultrasound? If you haven't, I think you should ask for another before the procedure to confirm things, even if it's just for peace of mind. Oh it's just so unfair! If you even need to talk or anything, feel free to pm. My thoughts are with you sweetness
Tocarra I hope everything is okay sweetie. I check everyday to see if you have posted anything. Saying lots of prayers for you.
Fificlaire Sorry the lemons didn't work but the FS say that the more m/s you have the better. It just means your hormones are going crazy and that the pregnancy is progressing. I can imagine how scary it must be for you. Sending you lots of
Van Good luck with your IUI. Sounds like tonight is the night Hope you get your BFP this month.
Emmykate Hi when I had my two miscarriages the o/b at the hospital said it would be fine to ttc again after the bleeding stopped.
KL and Chyan Sending you lots of . Your HCG levels were great. This one looks like a sticky jellybean :woot:
Ruthie Glad to hear everything went well over the weekend and the bleeding stopped. Good luck at your docs appointment hope everything goes great looking forward to reading you post and hearing that everything is fine.
Babyfever Sending you lots of and that you get your BFP.
Joey I agree with babyfever and would say your 6DPO. I would get a BT done just to check that way you dont have to worry about it all weekend. Good luck.
As for me DH had his second semen test yesterday to check his DNA fragmentation as last time it was above 30 which is pretty bad. I have my u/s on friday to check that everything is okay after my op to remove the subseptum. Then we have our FS appointment next wednesday to get the results. This week is going to go sooooo slow. that we get great results.
Tocarra - my thoughts are with you. I'd ask for another u/s before your procedure just to make sure, remember a lot of women do have a bleed and go on to have a H&H little bub. I do so hope that you are able to come back at some point and TTC again. Let your heart and body heal and remember we are always here for you. We'll try really hard to clear this thread out for you.
Ruthie - all the best with your appointment on Wed. Hope everything goes just the way you want it to.
Leyza - for you. Please have yourself checked.
Fifi - can you send DH over. (make sure he brings a piece of cheesecake for me) then you can have him straight back
Krystie - give that belly a rub for me.
Van - hope that little egg meets Dh's swimmers while your having your rest. Enjoy your relax session.
to anyone else i've missed. (i'd better get back to work now - the natives are getting restless - it's almost time to go outside and play)
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) and insomnia is still looming around, although, i did sleep the whole night through last night
to Toccara, where are you, hope everything is ok.
hope they are
issue, but wish you all the best with your IUI today!! Sending you lots of
I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide--it's your body, and you'll know when you're ready!
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Sending you my very best wishes!!!
What do you think? Can you please have a look at my chart everyone???
Hope you get your BFP this month.
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give that belly a rub for me.
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