Toccara--Oh, honey... I'm so, so sorry! I'm also questioning if you've had another u/s--and what about BT's? Have they actually confirmed that you've m/c'd? Wish that I could be there for you... sending you the biggest hugs... take care of yourself.
Ruthie--Wishing you the best of luck for your appt. tomorrow! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one!
fifi--Will your DH make me a cheesecake? I like regular, strawberry, or pineapple!
joey--What's the deal with the dashes going from the 14th-16th on your chart? How come it skipped the 15th??? Could that temp just have been a little off--did anything unusual happen that morning? Because if that temp were just a little higher, I think it would've given you your coverline on the 16?
Van--Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI! Please little go find that egg!!
Babyfever The FS put him on menevit to help with his sperm its kinda the same as elevit for females put for sperm. Hopefully that will fix the problem.
Mannie, joey and jen Thanks for the well wishes greatly appreciated.
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
Tocarra I am sorry for your pain my heart goes out to you. I'm meant to be leaving for work but had to check one more time b4 I left and seen you post and had to reply. I understand about you just wanting it to be over. I felt the same way it such a hard time.
Good luck at your u/s tomorrow I wish I could be there with you. I dont know much about your history, have you been seeing a FS and had testing done for the previous miscarriages? I myself have had two miscarriages both at 5 1/2 weeks and have been going to miscarriage management at Sydney IVF. They have done blood test, u/s and laparoscopy and hysteroscopy. They have also done extensive testing on DH sperm. Anyway your them welcome to PM me and I can tell you all about the tests it you havent already been through them. Also there is a sticky on the forum page with all the lists of test they do at SIVF for miscarriages.
I thank you all so much for being so hopeful but I'm sure I'm m/c'ing so I'm not going give myself false hope I have been bleeding heavy like regular af and when I wipe its clots there they are going to do an u/s before hand I'm just ready for 2morrow to come and go I'm so hurt and my body still acting as if I'm pregnant does not help ...
Tocarra, Sweetie. Yes, whether things turn out for the better (or sadly, possibly the worse), you just want to get through it. I know what a toll this is taking on you emotionally. Please feel free to PM me. I realise no amount of cyberhugging will help you, but you really are in my thoughts. I am giving you one anyway
If you can, please have an ultrasound before the D&C...
Like Tam I have done the Miscarriage Investigation Program through SIVF. If things do not work out I can also give you any info you might need, even about testing through your local dr (which I also did).
Take care and please look after yourself as best as you can
xxx
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Toccara50......HUGE hugs to you hun...... You do what is right for you right now...... When you feel that you want to TTC again then we will be here for you.... At this rate... I will still be in here so I will keep a seat warm for you
Nuff of Nuff Nuff Chyan.......Not to be again hun.... AF greeted me this morning..... Also got DH s tests back with a resounding 0%...... hmmm could it be worse... can you have minus percentages. FS said the only way is ICSI.... I will know more when I see him on the 19th. Having said that he still wants me on Clomid from Friday and then scan the following Friday... I m sure he has something in mind... just not sure what at the moment.
Pill Chyan...... Waiting for those new HCG levels.... Aunty Angels going to be keepin a close eye on little Chyan... Ohhh and guess what ... Little Chyan wont be steppin out into this world on the 19th of May..... Aunty Angel has had little words.... Little Chyan now wants to come out into this world on the 18th May because that is Aunty Angel and PCL1805 s Birthday.... Little Chyan is looking forward to be a May 18th Birthday Buddy
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Toccara I am so sorry. I know there is nothing i can say or do - i was in your position only 2 weeks ago. Take as much time and personal space as you need to grieve. It must be a very difficult time for you. I am thinking of you
Thanks everyone for your advice re: when it is ok to start TTC again after m/c. Hubby and I are not exactly going all out there to , rather we are just following our natural urges . If it happens, it happens. Having said that i have been feeling kinda yuk the last 24 hours or so. Nothing seems to want to kill the nausea... we are hopeful that maybe this is a sign.. but that could be wishful thinking.. although i have heard that you can be very fertile straight after a m/c. We'll just have to wait and see.
I'm also questioning if you've had another u/s--and what about BT's? Have they actually confirmed that you've m/c'd? Wish that I could be there for you... sending you the biggest hugs... take care of yourself.
I like regular, strawberry, or pineapple!
Could that temp just have been a little off--did anything unusual happen that morning? Because if that temp were just a little higher, I think it would've given you your coverline on the 16?
go find that egg!!
mollycat! Is your thermometer stuck on the same numbers, or what? 
for you! 
I wish I could be there with you. I dont know much about your history, have you been seeing a FS and had testing done for the previous miscarriages? I myself have had two miscarriages both at 5 1/2 weeks and have been going to miscarriage management at Sydney IVF. They have done blood test, u/s and laparoscopy and hysteroscopy. They have also done extensive testing on DH sperm. Anyway your them welcome to PM me and I can tell you all about the tests it you havent already been through them. Also there is a sticky on the forum page with all the lists of test they do at SIVF for miscarriages.
, rather we are just following our natural urges 
. If it happens, it happens. Having said that i have been feeling kinda yuk 
the last 24 hours or so. Nothing seems to want to kill the nausea... we are hopeful that maybe this is a sign.. but that could be wishful thinking.. although i have heard that you can be very fertile straight after a m/c. 
We'll just have to wait and see.
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