Oh i thought i had replied before but my message DISAPPEARED

Toccara I am so sorry. I know there is nothing i can say or do - i was in your position only 2 weeks ago. Take as much time and personal space as you need to grieve. It must be a very difficult time for you. I am thinking of you

Thanks everyone for your advice re: when it is ok to start TTC again after m/c. Hubby and I are not exactly going all out there to , rather we are just following our natural urges . If it happens, it happens. Having said that i have been feeling kinda yuk the last 24 hours or so. Nothing seems to want to kill the nausea... we are hopeful that maybe this is a sign.. but that could be wishful thinking.. although i have heard that you can be very fertile straight after a m/c. We'll just have to wait and see.