Went to work 9am notice bleeding went to ER they did scan said baby was fine but I had threatened M/C and things looked good because the bleeding stopped went home took nap woke up went to bathroom bleeding started again pass one small clot so far I just want this to all be over quickly I'm so heart broken and sad right now the tears just wont stop I prayed so hard and still my baby died I don't think I will be trying to get pregnant again I can't take going through this pain again ...
Last edited by Toccara50; September 8th, 2008 at 10:08 AM.
Toccara50...... Hun..... go back to the ER..... please dont automatically think the worst.... its painful enough when we know it is reality, please dont put yourself through that pain before any form of confirmation. We dont know what it is yet.... Good Luck hun
oh toccara honey are you sure? there are so many incidents of bleeding and the baby is fine. I passed a clot too and baby was fine. Can you contact your ob or similar and ask if anything can be done in this circumstance? oh hun, i wish i could do something for you.....
I am my little heart out for you. Please go back to the ER! I hate hospitals for this they did it to me on my second miscarriage. They just dont care grrrr it frustrates me! Did they do an u/s? Can you go see your FS? or call him? Maybe you could find obgyn in your area if you dont already have one and see if they will see you asap to do an u/s and blood work.
Ohhh I wish I was there to comfort you. This is such a scary and hard time. Please dont give up the fight we are all here for you
Emmykate I just wanted to say welcome and hope that your stay here isn't long and you have a healthy stress free pregnancy soon. The ladies here are wonderful and will make you feel very welcome . I am sorry to hear about your loss.
Last edited by Tam83; September 8th, 2008 at 10:40 AM.
Toccara darling it may be a small perinatal tear or sub chorionic haemotoma - these can resolve themselves. Call your FS darling.
Strength and love to you this will be fine for you darling.
Love Adele
How come it seems like I was the only one that couldn't get on BB today? This is the first time all day long that I didn't get an error message!! Have to read thru all the posts... you girls have been busy... will be back for persies!
Jen Jen....Hope your having a wonderful day...... i m off home now.. back to bed..... still sick as...... Huge hugs hun.. and I hope the fog has lifted
Toccara - I agree with the others, go back to the ER or your obs. Hopefully everything is perfectly fine with your baby. My thoughts are with you sweetie!
As for me, I'm having a bit of a freak-out. I woke at 7am to take my temperature and it's dropped quite a bit. I'm terrified. I tried to tell myself it's fine because it's still higher than the coverline, but I kept having nightmares when I went back to sleep. I've compared it to my last pregnancy and it never dropped like this. I just don't know what to do!!! I thought that maybe my prog level isn't high enough or something. But even then I don't know what to do. I was thinking about calling my ob, but I think I would just sound silly seeings as things are so early. I'm just so worried that maybe the hormones are not strong enough to stop AF from coming and taking my baby with her!
KRYSTIE..... STOP IT...... Breath girl... Breath..... Remember.. not stressin.. enjoying every second....... you will send yourself absolutely insane if you spend the next 9 months like this......... Now dont make me come down there and SPANK you... and i dont mean spank as in nice spank either....
Step 1 Breath in
Step 2 Breath out
Step 3 Repeat steps 1 and 2 continually.
Dont make me call you... I ve got your number and I know where you are.... I m sure I could be a stalker if i really put my mind to it.
toccara - I really hope that everything works out ok.
KL - I don't think I could have said it any better than Angel babies so just read her last post again & follow steps 1, 2 & 3. It's so hard not to panic I know I was there not too long ago. Try not to scare yourself too much. I actually stopped taking my temp the day I got my BFP just because I didn't want any extra stress. It's up to you by my advise is put it away and don't use it again.
Oh no, Toccara! Don't you give up just yet! If they did a scan and said the baby's fine, then that's a good sign! Are you having any cramping or pain? I agree with the other girls, I think you should get back to the ER--you need to know one way or the other, hon! I'm so hard for you and your little one... hang in there, little one! Keep us posted--remember we're here for you no matter what!!
Krystie-- Ok, relax... have you POAS again? How about getting in to see your doc? I'm sure that given your previous circumstances, you would be able to get in fairly quickly, don't you think? How about some BT's? You're NOT being silly--if you're worried at all, then I say CALL!! Always better to be safe than sorry! Try not to worry too much, stay calm, keep your positive vibes going--getting an appt. today will give you such peace of mind! Saying major for you and your little bub! *kiss*
Ok, between the two of you and my best friend (who I called in a minor panic), you've made me feel a little more calm. So thank you!
I'm heading down now to get my blood taken and I'm trying to get in touch with my obs office (I think they are at lunch, how inconsiderate, LOL!) to see if they can add some tests to the blood order, like prog etc... Not sure if they could do anything if it comes back bad, but I'll try not to think of that for now.
Hmmm, now you girls are going to think I'm totally losing the plot... but does anyone believe in the lunar cycle stuff? If I'm honest with myself I would say I don't... but... it's meant to be my lunar peak today, and I've started getting pain from my right ovary (the opposite side I just ovulated from 2 weeks ago). I'm sure it's all a load of bull, lol, but I've actually calmed myself down a bit by thinking that maybe my temp was a bit lower due to something similar to the pre-ovulation temp dip. See, told you you'd think I was insane!! :P
Ooops, was posting at the same time as you Jen! Thanks for your message too! I think I'll pick up some pee sticks on the way home from having the blood taken.
Ooh, Angel, will you spank me, too! Hope you feel better soon! Miss you! Hope things are ok with you... how was Father's day? When's your internet at home going to be fixed????
Krystie--If you look in the chart gallery at the pg'cy charts, you'll see there's lots of them that had fluctuating temps after their BFP!! Check it out, you'll see... This is not the way to begin enjoying being pg, missy!! Follow Angel's steps 1, 2, & 3, and call the doc!!! Then report to me in the chat room so I know what's going on! (thought I'd sneak that one in ther ein the hopes you'll still be up!) and
I'm officially joining this forum this month. My AF arrived yesterday (first one since having my D&C) confirming that I am physically back to normal. For some reason I was expecting it to be really painful, not sure why. So my DH and I decided we don't want to wait any longer to TTC.
I feel so positive today so am sending positive vibes to everyone who is TTC and all those with BFPs that everything goes well.
In regards to the lunar cycle stuff, yes your on the right track, I asked the same qustion to the ladies in the pagan thread. Go and have a read if you have some time. Also don't forget that you can bleed at 4 weeks and 8 weeks and 12 weeks in the first trimester, on the day you were supposed to get your period, so thats normal..goodluck and Im sure all will be fine, my prayers are with you and Toccara....try not to panic and stay calm...God is watching over you both....
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I don't think I will be trying to get pregnant again I can't take going through this pain again ...
are you sure? there are so many incidents of bleeding and the baby is fine. I passed a clot too and baby was fine. Can you contact your ob or similar and ask if anything can be done in this circumstance? oh hun, i wish i could do something for you.....
my little heart out for you. Please go back to the ER! I hate hospitals for this they did it to me on my second miscarriage. They just dont care grrrr it frustrates me! Did they do an u/s? Can you go see your FS? or call him? Maybe you could find obgyn in your area if you dont already have one and see if they will see you asap to do an u/s and blood work.
Don't you give up just yet! If they did a scan and said the baby's fine, then that's a good sign! Are you having any cramping or pain? I agree with the other girls, I think you should get back to the ER--you need to know one way or the other, hon! I'm
Hope you feel better soon! Miss you!
(thought I'd sneak that one in ther ein the hopes you'll still be up!)
OMG KrystieLove.
I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy for you sweetness!
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