Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2010
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Hi everyone, still lurking. Struggling to keep up. So much chatting. Every time i log in I read determinedly (sp?!) through all the pages i've missed then by the time i get to the end i'm too exhausted to post!
Some random persies (based on memory): Good luck Kelbell and mum22 with your results. Bons: numbers sound great. Twins would be awesome. Forshelby: LMAO at your modern fairy tale. Thankful to say i have never seen the kind of fairies you swept out of your house! Dory: how's it going? Loops, sorry for BFN this month. Great to hear you're gearing up for IVF. Mathewsmum: Wishing you sticky vibes for this month's transfer. Clairesmummy: This months BDing efforts sound rustic and romantic (and hopefully private: hope DD sleeps as 'planned'. I notice mine always stays determinedly awake when I especially want her to sleep in a hurry cos i'm going out or something!) Minnie mouse: think i forgot to say hi last time. I agree: we'll be TTC about the same time in October i think (If i can make myself hold off till then). Damprye: I didn't quite understand your post. Which thread will you be moving to? Hi to anyone else i missed.
AFM: 2 weeks since my mc bleeding stopped (after 8 wks!) and i appear to have AF! Not fair!!!! At least i hope that's what it is. Now that i think about it, a couple of days after the 'old' bleeding tapered off 2wks ago i started getting some pain on the right hand side for a couple of days. I now wonder if that was ovulation. Then i started feeling crappy and headachey on Friday and when I started bleeding that night i realised i must have AF... i think. Has anyone else had AF show up so soon after the end of a mc? I think it's technically possible for it to be AF if bleeding has stopped for 2wks.
Forshelby - Your story made me laugh and DH gag!!! Glad you could laugh about it after!!
Possum - It does sound like af, maybe you are slipping straight into 28 day cycles?
Reet - Hope you are home safe n sound!
Mum22 - I hope bleeding stops for you, hugs hun xxx
Big hugs for everyone xxxx
AFM - Weekends go too quickly!!! I fell down a the stairs yesterday afternoon, i have bruises up my left leg and the biggest one on my butt cheek...Im so clumsy!!! ms is starting to hit harder which is nice, although its not much fun losing everything i have eaten minutes after eating it. Trying to work out when to have scan so DH can be there, maybe monday next week.
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Mum22 ~ So sorry you are going through this scary time, i hope and you are just one of those many people that spots and cramps during pregnancy. Most likely hun - keep ya chin up and will have FX tight for you
Damprye ~ You might not see this but just in case - will be sad not to see you in here but may see you in the other threads and will keep in touch on FB. Hope you are doing ok hun and GL with the IVF, FX for you! xo
Possum ~ Sounds like AF to me too - hope it is and your system is getting back to normal so you can get back in the saddle, FX!
Bons ~ Hope you are ok after falling down the stairs. Hugs back xo
AFM ~ Still waiting for AF - CD34 today and still hoping she wont turn up at all but if she does im all ready to start the pill and will be hoping time goes quick for Oct.
Mum22- Oh im so sorry to hear ur going thru a rough patch has the spotting stopped yet?? when are u getting more bloods done?? 2 weeks til ur next scan is going to feel like the longest time
Forshelby- U sure are 1 clever storyteller! 12 weeks woohoo!!!!! I really hope ur dp can come for ur scan.. FX!!
Matthewsmum- I hope ur 2ww goes super quick! Will u wait for the bt or test early?? Good luck x
Damprye- Good luck on ur journey. What thread are u moving too??
Clairesmummy- O time soon! When are u going to start the bding bonanza??
Stoked- Guessing u have already started ur bding bonanza??
Loops- Yay so good to hear that the ball is finally rolling for u!
Kell- Have u gone for scan yet??! Come on! Im hanging in suspense!!!
Possum- Oh i hope it is af coming and not some other random bleed. Does it feel like its af?? Did u get cramps and heavy bleed etc..??
Bons- Yay for m/s!! Sorry to hear u fell down stairs.. did it freak u out?? Im hopefully going for scan next monday too.. only cos i have to work it around when dh is going to be here as well.. exciting exciting!!
AFM- Well we got to our destination..Weipa.. a 9-10 hr drive ended up taking about 12-13 hrs cos of car troubles. I cant understand how u can pay $1300 for a service only 2 days before but something still goes wrong.. it was the worst grinding sound ever! DH isnt too happy.
We are having a great time tho.. SIL has 5 kids so we are just busy running amok with them.. lots of babies and puppies to play with!
Its hard keeping our secret a secret. SIL is pretty switched on.. she just knows when someone is pg.. she hasnt come out and asked me yet thank goodness cos i wldnt be able to lie!
I am just about to ring and make my scan for next monday.. i think i wld like to wait a bit longer but its really the only day that dh will be able to be there.. FX there will be a heartbeat!
My bbs are finally feeling sore and tender! Yay! Im getting a slight case of thrush too.. so no hanky panky for a few days.. and im feeling queasy.. but that cld be cos im so blocked up.. honestly i havent done anything but kangaroo pebbles! (Way tmi I know!) So its a fruit and lots of water day for me today.
Hope everyone had a good weekend.. i love being on holidays.. it doesnt even matter what the day is!
Possum - i really hope this is AF and your body is getting back to normal. at least you have a firm date to start counting from now!
Bons - how exciting for your scan !!!
Loops12 - my bet is you might just get a BFP this month... FX for you.
AFM - i'm think i'm about 4DPO and i noticed that i have creamy CM today... is this normal? I O'd a few days early this cycle (i got a positive OPK, plus had sore nipples, plus was quite frisky - Sorry if TMI!!) and now i'm worried that maybe it was a false positive and i'm yet to O... is it possible to get a false positive with an OPK?? i've also had tingling in my stomach for the last couple of weeks - what on earth could this be?? maybe it's just me imagining symptoms?? geez who knows. plus i never seem to get EWCM at all - should i be worried?
afternoon all,clairesmummy-hope dh gets better soon,maybe some creative positioning time...glenglen-i don't think having the cm is a worry...reet-knowing me i'll probably test early...loops12-still hoping af doesn't show for you but you've got a good plan if she does...bons-you be careful on those stairs,bet you tell ds to be careful all the time,then you go and do it...possummagic-hope it all gets sorted soon.I think you can ovalute 2 weeks after m/c bleed.I had a small bleed about 2 weeks after intial bleeding,everyone seems to vary though...mum22-glad things went well at dr's,i don't think the u/s would be harmful ....afm-I'm 3 days post 5 day embie transfer & getting brownish blood streaked cm,i'm scared that ttransfer has been unsuccessful once again
Wow it's all been happening in here over the week end. Hope you are all well and safe.
Bons- Hope you are ok after your fall sending hugs to you.
Mum22- Hope you are feeling ok and the spotting has stopped for you, sending you massive amounts of sticky vibes and hugs.
Possum- After my MC AF showed up pretty quickly as well I think by memory I had stopped bleeding and then about 18days later AF arrived. Hope all is going well for you.
Loops- Here's hoping and FX you have a no show from AF and you get your well deserved BFP this month darl......sending you lots of baby dust and sticky vibes.
AFM- Well had an interesting week end, poor old DF got hammered in the cattle race yesterday tagging the cattle we are sending to the sales this afternoon he was a total cripple last night but reassures me he is a little better today so no DTD for us for awhile I would say......gggrrrrrrr.....if it's not 1 thing it's another......I'm hoping that O will be on time this month which makes it for this week end coming Still waiting for my OPKs to arrive in the post getting very impatient about them and hope I don't O before they get here. I have had creamy white CM today and yesterday so hopefully the OPKs will be here tomoro and I will O towards the end of the week early next week. HMMM waiting waiting waiting and with all this waiting I'm hoping DFs leg will be all good before then so we can get to DTD like NOW please......lol.....guess I'm a little frustrated atm.....Anyhow ladies I hope you all have a lovely day today. Sorry if I have missed anybody. Take care.
Clairesmummy - oh your poor DF... yet another obstacle to getting Preg !
Reet - good luck with your scan. it must be impossible to keep such a wonderful secret to yourself.
bons - ouch! do you find you're more clumsy when Preg?
AFM - well i'm definitely going crazy and "symptom spotting" at the moment. i'm either 4 or 5 DPO and i'm feeling some twinges in the lower right side of my belly... implantation please !!!!???? or maybe it's just my lunch probably a bit early for implantation... although last time i got a BFP at 8DPO so it's not impossible? (someone please talk some sense into me)
Hello ladies..
Sorry I haven't contributed in ages. I have been reading though.
I was feeling a little 'afraid' of the whole TTC thing so decided to put it all out of my mind and not focus on it. I am feeling a little better and more 'ready' now... Although, DH has started working away so it may be a little difficult to catch the eggy at that all important moment! I am on CD12 and DH is away til Friday evening so I don't know what our chances are!
I got AF a week early last month so I think my body is still recovering from the d&c.
I wanted to wish Dory all the best for tomorrow. Like everyone I too can't wait to hear the news!
Have a good evening girls xx
Well i am now on day 31...and no af still..and the period/ovary pains seem to have gone away for the moment...what the..........havent tested yet as i am going to wait so i dont completely do my head in. No point testing everyday if af is actually on the way...im having a blood test friday, so by monday/tue i should hopefully know whats going on and if im pregnant or not.....im trying to relax myself to bring af on if i am not pregnant and its not working LOL.....maybe i did actually ovulate late and thats why my period isnt here....its never happened before tho....(grumble grumble)
Good Morning All- Hope everyone is staying dry as it's raining here again, luckily I got most of our washing done and dry yesterday but a few things got caught on the line now they are stuck there until they dry....lol
Melster- Good Luck with no AF arriving be keeping a look out for your BFP FX for you.
Stoked- Great to hear from you, and wishing you all the very best with catching your eggy darl, FX for you.
Forshelby- You really must give up drinking those fizzy drinks upside down darl.....lol......don't you hate it when it runs up your nose....lol.....just jokin darl, hope that heart burn is feeling better today for you.
GlenGlen- How are you travelling today darl hope all is ok with you, Monday's getting close now, FX for a very sticky little bub for you.
Loops- October is approaching quickly best of luck for your IVF darl, thinking of you and FX for your BFP as well.
Sorry if I have missed anybody but I hope you are all safe and healthy and enjoying the wet weather if you are getting any of it that is, me I'm over it and want my warm sunny days back please.....lol
AFM- Well I have made my DR appointment and it's today at 1:40pm, I'm nervous, I'm scared poo less and hoping I can get it all out there and she will listen to me and take me seriously. I have my cycle charts ready at the door and wishing DF gets off work early today and can come in with me to hold my hand. I am so so so scared right now about what they will find and what they will want to do and test, but I guess it's better to get answers than live in no mans land and have no clue. So that's what's happening with me today girls so I've got my FX and saying my prayers that we can sort our problems out and get our long awaited BFP before Xmas would be wonderful.......
minniemouse - I actually understand how you feel. If I can advise something, maybe you can check out LTTC after m/c loss thread. This one seems more focused on TTC than pregnancy, you may be more comfortable there. I know I was.
Ladies, it is LONELY in the PAML thread!!!! Come over there. It is for people like us, pregnant but not believing it, scared that it will go away....
Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2010
you are just one of those many people that spots and cramps during pregnancy. Most likely hun - keep ya chin up and will have FX tight for you 
has the spotting stopped yet?? when are u getting more bloods done?? 2 weeks til ur next scan is going to feel like the longest time 
12 weeks woohoo!!!!! I really hope ur dp can come for ur scan.. FX!!
probably a bit early for implantation... although last time i got a BFP at 8DPO so it's not impossible? (someone please talk some sense into me)
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