Thank you so much everyone for your beautiful responses - you have all had me in tears, you are so kind. DH also just sent me a lovely email, so I am very teary right now (and not getting much work done!).
Claire - I knew that someone here had to go to London to be a bridesmaid and couldn't fly but I couldn't remember who it was. I am so glad you managed to get there! It is such a long flight - we fly to Paris and then after a 9 hour wait, on to Spain. I hate the flight at the best of times, so I am not looking forward to it. Looks like we will have a serious problem if the OB's scan on the Mon shows any probs, as we fly out on the Thurs. I am not sure if travel insurance will cover it, as it specifically excludes travel when you have had previous pg complications or medically assisted conception. I don't know if you can call 2 m/cs previous pg complications, and I was on clomid, not to conceive but to hopefully help this one to stick, so not sure if they call that assisted conception or not in my case. I soooo hope we both get positive results on Mon and can breathe out a little. I'm glad you are feeling better than you thought you would, and happy birthday for tomorrow!
mummyto1 - thank you! It's good to hear that it doesn't seem to take too long to recover after a D & C (physically - obviously emotionally is another matter). I had a drug to induce a m/c, and it resulted in 11 days of heavy bleeding and cramping and another 5 days of light bleeding. I would def have a d & c next time, if it comes to that.
Susan - welcome and sorry to hear of your loss.
Salt - yeah, I do have sick leave, but I really don't want anyone suspecting anything, and have been too busy at work to take any time off. I think I might just have to though, I am soo tired I can barely get through the day.
BBL - yet another fire alarm is going off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Back again - we have had soooo many false fire alarms here it is driving me crazy! How am I supposed to talk to my BB pals during work hours with these interruptions?!
Salt - I hope all goes well with your parents op tomorrow. I am sure it will, but I understand you worrying, I would too. Will you have the day off? Why is your position being advertised? Is it just one of those things that they have to do but you should stay anyway? You poor thing - you are under way too much stress right now.
kiwigirl - how scary! I am glad the bleeding has stopped now. I have never had that before, although I did find after my m/cs that the next cycle or two was a bit strange and AF would stop and then come back a bit a few days later, I think m/c just stuffs things around a bit.
zionsmum - thanks. You are right, I should try and enjoy this a little more, I am just letting everything get on top of me.
cherie - thanks for your kind words. I sooo hope this baby is coming home with me, I just couldn't cope with another loss. I hope you have a preggy ticker soon too - there are some really nice ones available right now!
Hi to everyone else. I have just managed to force down lunch, although it is threatening to make a reappearance, and it takes me sooooo long to force a meal down. I am so tired I could fall asleep at my desk. I am so tempted to do a George from Seinfeld and make up a little bed under my desk and set an alarm for home time!
you have to stay positive and dont think negative or you body will see that you are stressed honey. you need to relax take it easy and think of happy thoughts the whole way. it has nothing to do with us nor our partners on why we misscarry and after mine i thought of it as a positive. maybe the bubs had many defects and instead of me finding out and having to make a decision god made the decision for me. which i think is good cos it would of been hard for me to make it.
so just keep thinking positive and every thing will work out kepp me informed.
bun
you wont have to cancel your trip cos everything is going to be fine. dont stress
claireabel
thankyou and i hope everything turns out well with you and the bubs fingers crossed this time. you should be fine keep me informed
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