Hi everyone. Thanks Kiwigirl for the good wishes, and "nice to meet you". I had my appointment with the gyn/obgyn this afternoon and all my test results have returned normal. He said thats a good thing, but also a bad thing, because it means everything really is down to pure chance. On the up side, he's happy for me to TTC again, which is good, as I'm hoping for good things in the next couple of months. The only thing he could suggest other than taking 1/4 asprin while preg, was to take the high dose folate (5mg instead of .5mg which is in most prgnancy vitamins). So as of now, I will do that and hope for the best! I was chatting to a good friend about it afterwards and though I love her to bits ....argh....she told me to just relax, and that'll make all the difference.
So helpful, if only I'd thought of it! She meant well..