TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 07 #2

[STARRYSKY]

hi everyone,
sorry if im offending anyone with not doing any personals, but i am new to this forum stuff so i hope i will get there eventually....
As most of you know, i had a missed m/c and then a d&c two weeks ago today, i am still bleeding slightly, to be expected i guess, anyway dp and i have discussed trying again and he is all for it, im still a bit hesitant to think about it too much but hasnt stopped me bding!!
what scares me is the actual getiing pg again, it took us about 18 mths last time, so im not getting my hopes up for a bfp anytime soon.
when and if i get pg again, should i go see my gp right away? is there anything i should be aware of or doing so this doesnt happen again? i know that i have only had the one m/c, it isnt really seen as high risk until after 2 or 3 or is it?
is there a way of monitoring the pregnancy so i would know right away that i had m/c?
sorry for the 20 questions but this sort of stuff keeps me awake at night and i thought if anyone could help me get answers it would be you guys.
my dp and i are considering getting private health cover, i think our public system is great but my gp didnt want anything to do with me just referred me to the closest hospital and they didnt want to see me until 16 wks, it was only by pure chance that i went to have the scan at 9 wks (downsyndrome screening) and found out id m/c'd.

seriously big hugs to you who have gone through it more than once, i dont know how i would cope....
xxxxxxxxxxxxx starry sky