thanx wowzer, have you posted your experience elsewhere (in here?) im being lazy about looking it up... how terrible for you to have to endure that at work......i have said before these things can only make us stronger.........
my bros gf m/c has stirred up all my head again, i thought i was handling it pretty well, but oh well...
hope you are better and the bleeding stops soon, i started bding a week after, i am still bleeding now(very lightly) i feel all out of whack atm, it will be 3 weeks ago tomorrow, sometimes it feels like years and then like today it feels like yesterday...
Hi girls, just doing my usual check in.
Starrysky - I'm really sorry about your brother's gf. I know what you mean about finding it hard to be a friend. Some people are really hard work. Maybe just settle for being there if she needs you? You have to take your own feelings about your MC into account too, it may dredge up a bit too much for you right now. I was also sorry to read about the work stuff. Its so so hard to "untell" people about a pregnancy. Kind of makes the "wait till 12 weeks" thing a bit easier to do, though we all know that that's no guarrantee either. Hmmmm, not exactly uplifting am I? Sorry Anyway off for an early night for me, totally wrecked today. Night everyone, hope you're all doing well!
Mumster & Wowzer: Welcome. I am very sorry for your losses. I hope your time in here is short and that you'll find this thread as helpful and supportive
as I have.
Satya: How are you doing? I, too, have everything crossed for you.
LizJessie: Congrats on your visit from AF. Please, o, please send her my way! It feels like it's been forever. Unless I'm pg (which I seriously doubt),
then tell her to skip me for a while.
Dawnee: Got my fingers crossed for you too!
StarrySky: Sorry to hear about your brother's gf. It is a terrible loss for both of them and your family. It really isn't fair that she wouldn't
tell your brother what was going on with her and then to blame him but I guess some people are internal blamers (like me), others need someone else to
blame. And unless she was doing something unhealthy to herself, there really is just no one to blame. I'm sure she will come to that realization soon-
I hope so for the sake of your brother's sanity!
Hi to everyone else!
Friday I called my ob to get my D&C results. It was a genetically normal girl. I was really expecting them to say there was a genetic abnormality and
at least then I would have had a reason. I felt pretty bad but my mom said all kinds of things can happen that aren't genetic in the formation of the
organs and stuff and maybe something just formed wrong. So then I felt better. But then later I freaked myself out b/c I thought I had accidentally taken
200mg of progesterone instead of 100. I was not worried unless I am pg. But then I looked it up this morning and I was on 200mg w/ my DD. So then I
started worrying I wasn't on enough progesterone this last time but then I remembered that I had a blood test right around the time I m/c'ed and my levels were fine. Geez, I am such a basket case!! Anyway, Thurs I will be 7wks since the D&C and I'm ready to either be pg again or finally see AF so I can
know where I stand. This waiting is driving me buggy!
Dawneee - How did you go this morning with the test? I have my fingers crossed for you.
Starrysky - sorry about your brother's loss. That must have been really hard on Sunday with the the pregnancy related questions... at least it's out there now.
Sweetpetite - It's hard not to wonder if you did something to cause a m/c but the truth is in most cases it's just something that happens and you wont get an actually reason for it. I think the hardest thing about m/c and/or LTTTC is all the waiting that goes on. I find that posting here always helps with that.
7DPO for me this morning. Temp dipped .2, bleeding gums again this morning. Two toilet trips overnight again. Slight spotting after BDing last night.
Hope your weeks are going well. I don't think I had any luck this cycle as no symptoms and got a BFN yesterday (I caved!) but I will test again on Saturday if AF hasn't arrived.
Satya, you always have so many symptoms!! I can only remember sore BB the day I tested (12DPO) and got a BFP in Jan. Fingers crossed it's third time lucky for you.
Hi everyone
I am off to ob today for results of D&C..... i dont really know how i am or should be feeling - i think i am a little scared of getting the results??
Anyway have to get ready to go i will post later to let you know the results...
Leila - thinking of you today as you get your results. Big hugs hun.
Mumstar and Wowzer - welcome girls - sorry you have to be here and so sorry for your loss, but the support in here is amazing.
Just a quick one cos i am at my mum's again (she is having a colonoscopy today and i am driving/caring for her) so big hugs to everyone and promise will do personals soon.
LittleScottishBoy and others I have no idea when mine is due. Well I know when it was due before the m/c but unsure when it is going to come now and I presume the m/c played up my cycles.
LSB you will be right, it is better to get it so you know your body is on track to another try for a baby.
Leila - best of luck today hun.
LSB - I sure hope your mum is doing ok, hugs to you both.
Wowzer - I hope AF comes soon for you so you can get back to normal.
Kiwigirl - It aint over till AF comes!!! so STAY AWAY AF !!
Satya - So many symptoms again !! I hope this is it for you hun.
Well im sitting here 3DPO and im bored. Its only been two cycles and im over it already. Im always waiting for something O, AF....boring.
heelo everyone,
hope you are all having a good day.
FINALLY today i have not had any spotting! so almost 3 weeks of that carry on and now i have to wait for af! Or better still for af to just not come.........
leila i hope all goes well at the obs, i will be watching for an update....
lsb hope your mum is doing okay, arent you a lovely daughter to help her out so much.
wowzer i have no idea when my af will come, hopefully soon or not at all, have been having a few o symptoms.....
kiwigirl and satya best of luck this cycle for a bfp, i feel we all need some good news!
sweetpetite hurry up af! i havent waited half as long as you and is driving me batty now, bring it on af.
treelo how are you? i hope everyone is recovering from the pox nicely, if thats possible, so is that everyone now?
sorry if i have missed people but sending you all big bfp vibes, (if you are trying)
starryskyxxx
Starrysky - Yes Cooper is the last to get the pox THANK GOD !!! But i must tell you he is going to be the worst of them all. Lawson is pretty tough and it takes a fair bit to knock him for six. But Cooper is very sensitive and emotional and has a VERY low pain tolerance. So he is at second day of spots which is the worst. He has the fevers and the stomach upsets and just plain miserable.
I just picked my car up and $390 later......im eating noodles for the next 3 weeks!! I need to be working but no one else can look after poor Coop, and to tell you the truth, i dont want anyone else looking after him, he is my baby (a 6 year old baby) and i will care for my precious one...we will survive without my pay somehow.
hey treelo,
glad to hear thats it then, i am sure you are the best thing for cooper atm, sonds like he has got it pretty bad? i have had it twice, both times just a few spots and a little under the weather, my brother had it terrribly, pox in his mouth, up his nose, in his ears as well as all over, diarrhea, fever, hallucinations!! i think mum ended up taking him to hospital, not that they did much...
is your eldest fully recovered?
thinking of you at this stessing time
starryskyxxxx
Thanks mate, Cooper is the oldest so no, only just started. Lawson is 3, he is fine now, although still has some scabby spots, and DH is now free of spots... and mum just needs a straight jacket.
derrrr, sorry, dont know what i was thinking!! its right there in your signature!!!
how about a nice comfy padded cell to go with that jacket?hehehe
xxx
Hi Everyone! well I tested again.......and I got a BFP.....OMG! i can't believe it..... it came up quite quickly too....am waiting for DH to come home and tell him but won't tell the kids yet......have booked with my Dr for a Blood test tomorrow! I am SO excited!! So by my calculations it's an early May Baby!
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