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PB: Ok, no congratulations yet, if you insist.... Do you have a pic of the line?? I've become addicted to the pics! :crossfingers: for sunday hon! Are you going to poas tomorrow??
Chappas: Are YOU going to POAS tomorrow???? Pleeeeease!!!! Well, all my symptoms kicked in with a vengance at 6 weeks with Lilah, so I guess they're just warming up. Am being a tad naughty tonight and having Chicken Treat (cos a girl can only be so good for so long).... What baby wants, baby gets!
Joey:Hmmm, I'll run it past DH.... however, I don't like our chances.... Maybe YOU should come over HERE! But in the summer, when it's warmer....
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no pic tutmae- dh has the camera at his office...will see what i can do over the next few days though
and i am definintely going to POAS again tomorrow with FMU...wish me luck!
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PB: Oh, trust me, there is loads of :pray: and :crossfingers: and babydust being thrown in your direction hon!! Let us know the result!!!!
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Tutmae - What absolutely fabulous news - congratulations! Hope the next couple of weeks fly for you until you get to see your precious jellybean.
pbstar - that is so wonderful. No congrats then as requested yet but some quiet, happy cheers from me. I can't wait to hear about your poas tomorrow ... let us know as soon as we can jump up and down with excitement for you :)
Thanks also to those ladies who have passed on their kind thoughts for me this week ... this thread is the safest place in the world... Angel babies - that song is amazing. I could only listen to it once but i know as the days go on I will head back and listen to it and think of my bubs.
afm - Had the d&c first thing yesterday and was home by 11am thankfully. Can't seem to get enough of my son at the moment. Poor child is at risk of overdose from kisses and cuddles. Sorry if this is tmi, but had very minimal spotting only after leaving hospital until 6pm tonight when I had the most god-awful cramps that had me doubled over and a lot of fresh red bleeding. Didn't have that last time around - anyone else have this? I took some capadex that they prescribed me and that seemed to help. Bleeding has eased up a lot now.
Have been keeping VERY busy and working hard at being very strong but kind of came unstuck today. Must have been the drop in hormones after y/day. Also we have very close friends that are due 12 Feb (6 days before we would have been) who had their 12w scan today - they called tonight to let us know it went well. Then we had to tell them about us. I wish them every happiness in the world but ... ouch. I am going to ask the counsellor to give me some coping strategies on how to deal with the constant reminders that this will mean for us and the best way to not become a bitter old hag (I know I can say these things to you girls...)
Also, I have decided to go back on the pill for a little while. My poor body needs a break - this year has seen 20 weeks of being pg and feeling cack, 2 miscarriages and 2 d&c's. And it's only August. Yikes. However have dusted off my pom poms and plan on being a ttcaml cheerleader until I feel brave enough to try again...
xx
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pbstar - I swear that these little happy jumpers and cheerleader smilies are not congratulations. They are for some totallllllly different reason ;)
:happyforyou: :cheer: :cheer: :happyforyou:
Jenushka - Hug that little boy of yours until he begs you to stop :hug: !!! After my d&c I never got any really bad cramps (mine were about twice the strength of usual AF cramps), but for the first day and a bit when I went to the toilet I would literally gush blood (sorry tmi). I think it can be different for everyone, but try not to worry too much. If the pain gets really bad though, I'd call your doctor. Does your state have a "nurse on call" hotline like we do in victoria?
Hi to everyone else!!! :grouphug:
DH is actually bugging me to test this month! Usually he tells me that I shouldn't test until days after AF is due, but he wants me to test tomorrow. Actually, he called me today to tell me to test, but I'd already done my morning pee :cryinglaugh: Sooooo, I am going to test tomorrow morning. Please please please have two lines little test!!!
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Just a reminder to pbstar that those emoticons were for something else entirely ;)
Actually, I forgot to say something to Jenushka. I was going to try to convince you not to go back onto the pill. Not that I'm trying to tell you to keep TTC'ing, because if you need to give your body a break, then by all means go for it. I've just been doing a lot of reading about the pill and it's effects on us, and I've come to the decision that I will never ever go back on the pill. Did you know that the synthetic hormones can remain in your body for up to a year after stopping the pill? Crazy huh? No wonder people's cycle can be messed up after coming off the pill. I was going to suggest that seeings as you've learnt so much about your body and your fertile window, maybe you could stay off the pill and just not bd around your fertile window. It usually only means not bd'ing about 5 days of each month. Sorry if it sounds like I'm ranting (oops), and if you still choose to go on the pill then I totally respect that :) :hug:
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Pbstar- Will not give congrats yet but cant wait to hear tomorrow :pink-babydust
Tutmae- So you should treat yourself and bubs. Dont think it would be worth poas tomorrow as got bfn yesterday pm
Jenushka- pleased that you are going to see counsellor hun my bf had her 12 wk scan day before our scan showed no hb at 11 wks can understand a bit how you feel. Take care of yourself :hug: :hug: :hug:
KL- :pray: you get that bfp tomorrow.
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pbstar - just lots of very warm hugs going your way - and bucketloads of babydust and sticky vibes :hug:
jenushka - equal amount of very warm hugs going your way - we know what you feel and i get teary just remembering it all too well. once again i am just so darn sorry :hug: and wish things could have been different. Look after that beautiful heart of yours by nurturing it with love from your son and darling.
tut - special hugs again to you sweet
Special big smothering hugs to those who particularly need them at this time.
Special hi to Van, Tina, Issy, Chappas, Toccara and Easha. I haven't forgotten the rest of you - will give you a special mention later :p
("special" overkill in this post)
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Pill Girl.... Fingers crossed so badly for you I have finger strain......
Pbstar.......hun.... a line is a line.... unless your using some cheap ar$e internet cr@p test....... then a line is a line.... sooooooo .... congraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ............tssss
See I can half do what people want but not totally.........:p
jenushka.... I am soooooo glad to see your post...... I was dreading the thought of you being so devistated that you hid......... I m sooooooo thrilled your able to still post.... huge hugs for you hun... everyone has had you in their thoughts and in their hearts...... and hun... it s normal to come "unstuck"...... infact it would be more abnormal not to.... just allow your body and your emotions to do what they do.... dont hold in... dont hold back.... but do know that we are all here for you :hug:
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Hi all,
Computer playing up and having trouble posting: Here is my post from yesterday.
Angel- I'm putting all my hopes into getting a BFP.
Toracca- So sorry. :hug:
Jen- :cryinglaugh: I think its a bit late for my DS to have a big brother & pretty sure he can't be a big sister. ;). We would be over-joyed & blessed with either a boy or girl.:D That skydive was really cool by the way. Although I was feeling a bit queasy just watching. :sick:
Krystie- No I haven't. I only have 2, so I'm trying to hold out til the weekend. I want to so bad but am currently keeping the urge under control. I am so scared of getting another ectopic....then its straight to IVF for me:(. Everytime I get a twinge in my right side (that's where the remaining tube is)my heart stops. The waiting really hurts.
Me- Still searching for early preg. signs:rolleyes:
AFM Today- Thinking of caving and may POAS tomorrow? Is this crazy? Na... I love that you girls in here are early pee-ers :cryinglaugh:
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Sandy.... my theory on pee....ing... is this.... From a sanity point of view...... if i keep POAS and I get BFN..... and then AF arrives... then i m like... ohhh ok well i have been getting negatives....it is better for my head than to be stressing out waiting to POAS on the exact date only to have a BFN...... If I keep peein and it keeps going BFN... and AF still doesnt arrive.. who knows .. it may just end up BFP....
So in my round about way I hope that makes sense
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Morning Angel! I'm in the lounge if you're up for a chat!
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beat you to it.... i was already in our room
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Morning ladies...short n sweet...
pbstar...:happyforyou::dance::happyforyou: NOT congratulations simply doin the "happy dance" ;)
To all my other gurlies *wavin*
:pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
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smi--You didn't tell us if AF arrived!!!! Please say my protective force field did the trick!! :crossfingers:
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So far AF hasn't arrived BUT I honestly think she'll show before days end...
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PLC- Hi hope you're doing well.
Sandygirl- :crossfingers: for you
Smilanatu- When you gonna poas?
:hello: Jen and Angel
AFM- Still no sign of af, peeing a lot though
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Easha--Welcome back from your skiing trip! Glad to hear of no broken bones! Yay for B6 and early O!!! :cheer: I'm thinking maybe you'll see a coverline with today's temp! Hope your :2ww: ends with a BFP!!! We missed you, am happy you're back safe! :hug:
joey--Yay, you're back! How you doin'? :lol: Sounds like you really enjoyed camp--you big daredevil, you! I forgot that you've done a skydive in the past, so the tree swing probably wasn't nearly as scary. Here's the link to DF's skydive that he did on Sunday.
YouTube - Sean's 2nd A.F.P. Dang, this didn't come up as a link this time.... I guess you can just go to Youtube and type it in.... sorry!
I'm using OPK's this cycle for the first time, too! Actually, they're O test strips, is that the same thing--it is, right? Looking at your chart, mind you I'm no expert--but I would say you maybe O'ed on Sunday due to temp drop... which would mean BD Fri. and Tue. should be perfect! Still may be in for a chance today--so don't mention the possibility to DH that you may still be fertile! Mum's the word.... :shhh:
So you're leaving us again so quickly? Hope you enjoy your skiing! Keep up Easha's trend and come back with no broken bones! :hug:
mollycat--Glad to hear regi went well, and you're done for another year! Whew! :dance:
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YouTube - Sean's 2nd A.F.P. Oh, there you go, joey!! Hope you enjoy it! The song has been stuck in my head for days!!!
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tut--Aww, sounds like you've got some lovely pg symptoms!! I would think a vaginal u/s would be able to show :heartbeat: But even without seeing the heartbeat, you'd still be able to see your bub, even if it's just a spot in a sac--which should relieve some stress! Keep spoiling yourself, hon, you deserve it! Lots of sticky vibes coming your way!
Toccara-- Hey, hon! Hope you're doing well! ;)
pbstar--I'm just :dance: for some exercise! I pinky promise! And this :cheer: she's indestructible like the one on Heroes, so I couldn't keep her away!! Will keep it quiet for now, per your request, but PLEASE POAS so I can give you the proper Congrats that you deserve!! :happyforyou:
chappas--Aww... :computer: I wanted someone else besides me to be first to make the 5 things list! :lol: Now I'm feeling the pressure.... maybe it was a bad idea! :rofl: Still no AF?? OMG, POAS girl!!!
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jenushka--:hug: :hug: So sad for you, hon! You're amazingly strong! I've been thinking of you a lot lately, and saying lots of :pray:
I had a D&C for my blighted ovum way back in '95, and I remember having cramps SO bad that I was laying of the bathroom floor in hot/cold flashes, feeling like I was in labor! It wasn't fun, and my heart is completely broken for you that you're going through this right now! You're such a trooper, and still so supportive of everyone else... again I say you're amazing and inspiring! Take care of yourself and your precious DS--I'm so glad you have him to get you through this! :hug:
Krystie--I've got everything crossed for you my partner in crime! :crossfingers: Saying lots of "please have 2 lines, please have 2 lines" :pray: for you!!! :pink-babydust: :pink-babydust:
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Jen-- Ok then no 1 thing you dont know, have a little shihtzu dog called sam who is soo cute.
Dont think the odds of me being utd are very high seems though got bfn yesterday afternoon do you?
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Sorry, sandygirl, I meant little brother! I guess it is a little too late to give him a big bro! :rofl: Brain fart! :lol: :goodluck2: with POAS tomorrow!!!
Rachel--Hope your procedures went well... thinking of you and saying lots of :pray: for you!
smi--:pray: she stays away!!! My force field is still in place!!!
:hello: plc, Van, issy, megsmum, LJ, and larz!
:hug: to WTH Thinking of you!
Ruthie--Haven't heard from you in a while! Hope things are well with you! :stickyvibesgirl:
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chappas--You should check out the chart gallery.... lots of BFP's the day after a BFN!!! Some women have several BFN's before they get that +!! Don't give up!!! I know you aren't charting, but you could still take a look without overlaying your chart! :goodluck2:
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Tut ~ sounds like you are feeling better now Yay !!! :hug: I'm :pray: hard you have a H&h 9months sweetie !!! another :hug:
Oh and nice ticker sweetie ... :D
Chappas~ maybe you should go and get BT if AF does not show up soon ...
Pbstar ~ Ok I'm just give you :hooray: :) for now lol
Jenushka~ I'm praying so hard for you hun I wish you all the best :hug: I'm short for words because I can't even imagine what you going through right now but my heart goes out to you at this time I to have been thinking about seeing a counsellor because I get so un done when I see pg women now ...
KL ~ I hope you get that BFP I'm be waiting for you to test as well ... and I also hate BC and will never use it again I was on the shot for years and wish to GOD I never got on it because I think it mess my body up !!!
Plc ~ Wow girlie 17 weeks how exciting do you know the sex of the baby yet & thanks for thinking of me sweetie it means a lot to me ...
sandygirl ~ thanks for thinking of me as well go ahead and poas 2morrow :D ...
Smilanatu~ Did AF show up ??? when are you going to poas ???
Jen ~ I just love reading your post !!!
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Okay...the suspense is officially over...AF is here...arrived around lunchtime @#!$
chappas...I still have faith in you gurlie POAS!!!
Krystie...fingers crossed for you!!!
Toccara...*wavin* how are you gurlie
joey...let's see you're back BUT leaving again?
sandygirl...fall in line and PEE already!
Okay I am sure I've missed many BUT I love you all!
:pink-babydust: :bluedust:
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While I am thinking about it I wanna go ahead and answer jen's thingy...
5 Things We Didn't Know About You
1. Green is my favorite color!
2. I drive a PT Cruiser
3. I am a "Marching Band Mom" my son plays an Alto Sax
4. My favorite song is "Pina Colada" by Rupert Holmes
5. I am addicted BIG time to MySpace Mobsters LOL
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Aww smi-- Damn! :angry: Now I'm going to have to break out with my can of whip a$$! So sorry :(
Thanks, Toccara! That's a sweet thing to say! :hug: Is AF taking it easy on you? My can of whip a$$ is sure to scare her off quicker!!
Hey, how bout it, you wanna be the first to post 5 things we didn't know about you?
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SWEEEET! Thanks smi!!! :hug: :hug: :hug:
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5 Things You Didn't Know About Me
I'm going to start it off with a bang....
1. I like going "commando" (but it's not my fault, as I have Scottish blood in me!)
2. I had to drink radiation for my thyroid, due to Grave's disease.
3. I'm the youngest of three girls--yep, the baby--but haven't spoken to my oldest sister since 1989 :(
4. I'm a fast-food junkie!
5. I have a wide variety of taste in music--top 5 would include: Sublime, Bob Marley, Linkin Park,
The Beatles, and yes, even God rock--(Skillet, Reliant K)
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Smilanatu--- So sorry stupid witch af arrived :hug:
5 things you didn't know about me
1 Have an older sister + 2 neices
2- Am a total friends addict (have all the dvds)
3-Have a phobia about flying
4- Love 80's music
5-favourite colour is blue
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ok - 5 things about me.....
1. Love love love 80's music (i hear you chappas)
2. Worked as a massage therapist for 7 yrs (including on a cruise ship - Florida to Bahamas)
3. I used to play the cello
4. Have a degree in languages
5. Met my husband playing soccer (football for our Euro friends) - he kicked my leg, the rest is history :bd:
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hey everyone
firstly jenushka- my heart just broke for you thinking of having to take the phone call from your friends who had a good 12w scan the day after your d&c...as if it isn't hard enough already without that happening...not their fault of course but bad timing or what? good idea to talk to the counsellor about it because i am sure the constant reminders will be so hard. once again sending you major :hug::hug::hug: and please know that it is definitely ok to come unstuck, sometimes being strong and dealing with something means admitting to yourself it is ok to feel and hurt etc if that's what you need to do to heal.
oh and with the pain and bleeding...after my d&c i had nothing other than spotting for the first few days and thought i would get away with it but then it started really bad. i remember being really scared and speaking to my ob on the phone who said it was different for everyone but most ladies had some pain and heavy bleeding with clots at some stage. definitely call or see your doctor if you are worried and need the peace of mind.
thanks to everyone for your quiet and sneaky congrats...have poas again and it is pretty much the same as yesterday, maybe a smidgeon darker. it is pretty clear though, even dh is claiming it to be a bfp. i guess i just don't want to admit it to myself until i have at least got past when af is due (sunday). but who am i kidding, because i know if i end up losing this one i will still be devastated...maybe i should just enjoy it while i can?
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pbstar - congratulate yourself on ur BFP sweet - you thoroughly deserve to enjoy that fact alone - how many months after all have you been waiting for that blessed hpt to come up positive and it finally has. All I (and the rest of us can do) is send positive positive vibes to you and ur bub (by the truckload :)). I am focussing on you lots so that those vibes can get to you express post. Well done sweetheart and as Angel says "One Day At A Time".
Smilanatu - I'm so sorry re AF hun - hope ur ok :hug:
Krystie - GL poas sweet - :pray:
Joey - welcome back honey, your delightful posts were missed :)
Megsmum - hope ur doing ok, thinking of you
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No BFP for me yet. It's only 11DPO so hopefully it's just too early...
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Thanks so much girls! I think it's awesome finding things out about you... maybe I'm a little nosy! :redface:
smi--(notice the green? :) ) You know that Slug bug game people play where they punch each other when they see VW bugs? Well, my kids made a new game called "PT Bruiser" same rules as slug bug! Ouch!
plc--A massage therapist, eh? You know, I have this spot.... I just can't seem to reach it... sure could use a cyber massage right now! (hint! hint!) Wow, a cruise ship? I've always wanted to go on one--at least until I watched Titanic! :rofl:
chappas--:cool: Love "Friends"!!! So which character are you most like? I used to be a clean freak like Monica! Could Chandler BE any funnier? Love Joey's, "How you doin'?" Was so happy (I'm serious, it was pathetic) when Ross and Rachel first kissed, and SO mad when they were "on a break". Phoebe cracked me up, and always had me :rofl: And Janice... OMG, Janice... all I can say is "Chandler Bing"! :cryinglaugh:
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pbstar--Yes! Enjoy it while you can! It's going to go by before you know it! I think you should go get a BT, too--no sense in waiting until AF is due if you've already gotten 2 :bfp: Ooh, love the look of that! So can we somewhat officially say you're the 2nd :bfp: so far for Aug? Or are we still being hush, hush about it? Damn, that indestructible :cheer: is back!
plc--Almost 18 weeks! :hooray: and :bellyrubs:
Krystie-- *stomping feet* It's an odd day... tut's lucky days are on odd days--your lucky days are the even ones! You must have bought the tests that only work on even days! Temp still looks nice and high! Where's your 5 things list, missy?
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Jen - Wondered why it didn't come up when I searched on 'Sean's 2nd A.F.P. Dang'. Doh!! :doh: Found it tho. It was amazing!! And he landed on his feet! Impressive!! I love the sound track that he has put with it. What a great song. I haven't heard it before. Who is it by? I think it has a great moral.
Will be bringing back NO broken bones. Can't wait. I'm soooo excited!
5 things about me...
1. My favourite food is chicken
2. I eat ice cream nearly every night of the week
3. I feel the cold really easily
4. Unless I'm Oing, I'm not really into the whole BDing thing - something I feel really bad about ... try to do my best for DH tho.
5. DH and I went to China for our honeymoon last year, so it is really exciting seeing all the places we have been, on the TV with the olympics coming up.
6. ILOVE Friends and Mcleods Daughters
7. My favourite colour is blue
8. Met my DH at my last job and left my husband at the time for him (not something I'm proud of, but so glad that I did it).
Chart Stalking Time
Easha - Cover line due any day now. BDing looks good!
Jen - Are you drawing a picture? Looks like steps to a mansion!
KL - Timing looks great. I'm PM you my mobile number so you can txt me if you get a BFP while I'm away
Mollycat -When are you testing???
Tutmae - BFP!!!
AFM - Frozen fingers and late for work. Any big deal news, I want to you to txt me while I am out swooshing on the slopes!!! :hug:
:hello: to everyone I missed. SORRY!!
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joey--Hey, that's 8 things! :lol: That's funny, I thought of a couple more things that I could've put, and was thinking I should've made it 10 things! That might be a little much, though! Dude, (sorry, terrible habit I've picked up from DF) ok.... Chick, am I good or what? Did I not just say that I thought you O'ed on Sunday? And that you would get your coverline today? You can call me the Chart Whisperer! :rofl:
Hey, do you use your OPK's once or twice a day? And what time? This is the second day in a row I've noticed watery CM, but O strips yesterday and today both came up neg.
You aren't leaving us yet are you? I thought it was this weekend you were leaving? Oh, and one last thing... well, ok 2 things, yay for DF landing on his feet--that was his main objective, aside from passing the jump, of course! And the song is called This is Your Life by Switchfoot. It's God rock--really good CD... oh and the title of the CD is "The Beautiful Letdown"
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Angel--Good morning snitch! Hope you have a great day! :hug:
BG--Hope you're enjoying DH being home! *moo* :lol: Hope the shower worked!
tina--It's been a while since we've heard from you... hope things are well with you! Lots of :bellyrubs: and :stickyvibesgirl:
Hey katiegirl :hello: in case you're lurking! Have been meaning to PM you, and have been thinking of you a lot! Big :hug: and happy :bellygrowing: Am going to pop in later to follow up on jo's scan! Oh, and I used to read Trixie Beldon, too! How funny is that? :lol: