anthonysmum - happy new year to you! PJ option and wine sounded great!I was the official driver last night so it was sparkling apple cider for me. (we wne tto my parents nothing spec) My DH and I are in LOVE with new york (our dream is to live there for at least a year!)and are planning our 3rd visit back there hopefully next year. (we are in the middle of moving house) Best of luck to you in 2008! I sincerely hope we have good news come our way...

Katiegirl - if you want the blood tests ask for them. I am glad you have found an OB who will be thorough for you. They may not turn up anything but in our case with jack, his autopsy showed no abnormalities but when i saw my Ob he said that the blood tests done by the hospital the day before i went into labour, had bought up a "common community virus" (can't remember the name was'nt thinking at the time) that was like a cold but to the fetus could either cause severe abnormality or fetal death. He said it could be passed on by someone just coughing near me and i would'nt even know i had it. He said he was glad the hospital had thought to test for it (they took about 10-12 tubes of blood)and i am due to go back to him next week to confirm the tests of it which is when i will ask about it some more. He was sure this was the cause as his original tests he ordered for me when i had my first check-up did'nt show it. It has'nt given me anymore closure but in some ways has eased the "blame " factor on myself just the tiniest bit as he said there was nothing i could have done to avoid it. He too specializes in pregnancy so i still feel very safe in his hands moving forward. good luck in feb!