Ok... well I ve been waiting on posts today for news...... hasnt happened

treelo...... Its a fast swinging door the one in and out of this thread. None of us knew we would be here and none of us know how long we are here for. We all hope that each other get s out ASAP but in the meantime we ve got some great cyber chocolate mud cake cooks in here, and a lot of just lovely lovely ladies. Some are a bit cheeky...... watch out for them, but they are wonderful. Jnr footbal club.... thats got to keep you busy. I remember (goodness dont I feel old saying it this way) I remember when i was pregnant with my son, who by the way is now 18, I also had a 4 year old step son. I decided (at the age of 19 cause of course you can do everything at 19) that I would take on managing the under 5 little athletics team. I walked around the oval on a friday night with all these 4 year olds teaching them how to throw a shot put, how to run 400 m instead of sprinting.... yeah now i know they dont listen but then I was convinced they would.... I was determined they would become the best under 5 team.......LOL. Then for years I was the one filling in for the coach when he was busy for my sons Rugby Leauge team...... Ohhh i could tell you some embarrasing tales there..... needless to say there are plenty of times i know my sons wished the ground would open up underneath them.

Now as for the "failure" part...... put out that hand cause here comes a big smack. There is not one person in here that is a failure. there is not one person in here that is doing any less than the best they can to firstly deal with their loss and secondly get on with their lives and then to add to that try and conceive again. The way I look at it, if you or anyone else in here gets to the BFP before me........ save me a seat, I dont know how long it will take but I ll get there and If i never see a BFP again then I ll pop by and visit anyway. We have very little control.... obviously we have the whole charting and IVF ect..... thats not what I mean by little control, I mean when we have done everything we possibly can we then have little control as to whether we end up with our bundles of joy. Please Please Please....... never feel like a failure, failing is only when you dont try.

Every single one of us is here for you....... throw a tanti..... get the chit s.... do whatever you feel you need to do, and then try some of that cyber cake.... its an aquired taste but the the calorie count is wonderful.