thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ January 08

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    Yorkshire, UK
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    Hi Everyone,
    I cant believe that it has only been a day since I last posted, so much going on!

    I am really sorry if I upset anyone by bringing up the coffee issue. I also belive that there was nothing any of us could have done to prevent the losses that we experienced. I think that taking control of something, by charting my cycle or watching my caffeine intake, gives me a little bit of hope that I can make things better next time.

    BettyB, so sorry that you are left waiting and waiting. I dont have any words of wisdom to make the waiting any easier, just wanted to say that I am thinking of you. Goodluck.
    Laura, glad that the move is over. Thanks for the cake!
    AngelB, Yes! I now have 3 consecutive days on my FF chart, although it is only really for practice, as I think that AF will be here soon as I am getting cramps already. I have also put the thermometer next to my bed. I find that measuring my temp gives me the excuse to stay in bed for an extra few mins..!
    Katie, glad that the party went well and that you had a good time. Your friends sound like really great mates, they knew just what you needed!

    Well, I'm off to have dinner now. Take care all!
    C

  2. #2
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    Jan 2008
    In a land of bubbles and trouble
    1,479

    Morning everyone

    I have been here only a very short time, but have been fortunate. I have had 2 full cycles since my D & C so maybe some of the rumour that it cleans you out and helps fertility is true.

    I got a BFP last night with 6pm wee, and again this morning. makes me 4wks 1 day. Going to docs today to get bloods done.

    It is only the start of another journey, and trying to be positive that it will all work out.

    Hubby says he is not going to even look at me when I O in the future

    Good luck to you all
    Last edited by SamiH; January 30th, 2008 at 07:39 AM.

  3. #3
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    Jan 2008
    573

    Congrats

    SAMI SAMI SAMI........ I am over the moon for you. Felt like the BFP were on hoidays from this thread...... Now we know they are back

    We all know the difficulty now, and I pray that everything goes smoothly.

    CONGRATS

    Morning everyone

    I have been here only a very short time, but have been fortunate. I have had 2 full cycles since my D & C so maybe some of the rumour that it cleans you out and helps fertility is true.

    I got a BFP last night with 6pm wee, and again this morning. makes me 4wks 1 day. Going to docs today to get bloods done.

    It is only the start of another journey, and trying to be positive that it will all work out.

    Hubby says he is not going to even look at me when I O in the future

    Good luck to you all

  4. #4
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    Jan 2008
    573

    Katiegirl

    Katiegirl.... I know there is a difference in me since loosing my angels and there will be a difference in you and everyone else in here. Our babies died..... thats it simply. As Mothers we will Grieve..... thats how it works. Its staight forward and simple. DONT feel bad at all about the fact you are grieving. Nathaniel is your son who passed away. The fact that you can get out of bed each day and go about most of your daily activities after loosing your baby is proof of the internal strength you have. Be proud of how far you have come. I know I am and I m sure the ladies are proud of how far they have come as well. Every day is a new day, every day you will be able to breath a little easier. Every day you will grieve but every day you will learn how to cope just a little better than you did the previous day.

    In here we chat, sometimes laugh, help each other on our journeys forward but that does not stop the simple fact that we are all mothers grieving for the loss of our children. In here it is just a little easier to deal with it because you know every one understands and everyone is going through the same thing and noone is judging anyone. WE ALL KNOW THE PAIN!

    HUGE HUGS KATIEGIRL and well done on how far you have come so far!

  5. #5
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    Jan 2008
    573

    Pair of Shoes

    A Pair of Shoes

    I am wearing a pair of shoes.
    They are ugly shoes.
    Uncomfortable shoes.
    I hate my shoes.
    Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
    Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
    Yet, I continue to wear them.
    I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
    I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
    They never talk about my shoes.
    To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
    To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
    But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
    I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
    There are many pairs in this world.
    Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
    Some have learned how to walk in them so they don?t hurt quite as much.
    Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
    No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
    Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
    These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
    They have made me who I am.
    I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.

  6. #6
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    Jan 2008
    573

    Going Now

    Ok... well i m going now...I only logged on to quickly read how you were all going.... and could not go once i ready Sami s and Katiegirls.... so i had to reply.... big hugs to both of you.... as for my normal post......I ll be back later today to catch up with everyone.... have a great day.

    PS the poem below is not mine, but it says it all so well.

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