Congrats satya! I kinda do take it to heart, because all the HPT I've done I've seen nothing but negatives - to see a positive would definitely lift my spirits
kbowman - I think it might be too early - either that or I'm not pregnant and I'm due to have AF - if it's coming, hurry up I say!
timnik77 - I very well might be - after all, it's only been a month since I m/c'ed - And if I'm feeling this way, it might have only been in there for about a week or so *shrugs*
New in here (well, sort of... i used to be "hope2006" a few years ago...decided i needed a new name since it is not 2006 anymore and life had changed a bit). Is it okay for me to join in?
Just m/c last week which really sucks as we had tried constantly for 9 months to fall preg, then we did, then we lost it. About 5.5 weeks my doc reckons. Sigh. Trying hard not to be too upset though.. can't wait to get back on the TTC band-wagon once this m/c is over (have chosen to m/c naturally - i had a d & c with previous m/c and hope i don't need one this time).
Satya - so wonderful to read of your BFP!!! Yaay... Sticky vibes sticky vibes.
Good luck to everyone TTC and i hope we all get lucky soon!
littlescottishboy - Im so sorry to hear of your loss. I had my second m/c 3 weeks ago. I m/c naturally and nothing was left, so i didnt need a d & c, which i had with my first m/c.
You are so very welcome here, everyone is so lovely. I hope your stay is very short and you get a BFP very soon.
Thank you for you thoughts, im praying but not very hopeful since dh has chicken pox.
Lizjessie - Im sending lots of positive thoughts your way, big hugs too.
Pash - Thank you for you kind words, I really enjoy being involved in the boys sports, DH is also the coach. Mind you..... they tend to miss out a lot of stuff when they con you into being manager. But its all good, i love sharing all their triumphs. And Cooper's first try will be etched in my memory for ever.
Everyone that i missed.....hugs to you all.
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Hi everyone, I'm sorry but I don't really have time for personals. Got to get dressed to go to the doctors. Yes I am going for a BT. I got a darker BFP this morning so I think it's time for the BT. The clinic I go to always takes a couple of days to get the results back so I wont know for a few days which will be really hard. The last time I was pg by the time I got around to getting a BT I was in the middle of m/c.... I'm not going to make that mistake this time. My temp also went up today, my BBs are tender & there's still no spotting so it's all looking good.
Welcome littlescottishboy - I am sorry for your loss. Your situation sounds similar to mine. It took us 9 months to get pregnant with the last pregnancy only to lose it at 5 weeks 4 days. It's taken 5 cyles to get a positive HPT this time, so at least this time it's been a bit quicker (although it seems like forever). My very first pg took 3 years to achieve so it seems that at least for me it can happen quicker each time.
Thank you to everyone for your support and very kind wishes and thoughts. The support I've got on this thread has been absolutely amazing. If all goes well with this one we are not intending to annouce it for ages so it's great to have all my BB friends to be able to discuss it with.
OK now, who is going to be the next BFP? I know there's one lurking somewhere here.... there always is..... actually it's usually in threes.
Satya - I'm stalking you girl lol !! Brilliant news about the darker line!! And teriffic symptoms. I just know you are going to get a gorgeous bub out of all this!!
Good luck with the BT and waiting, waiting, waiting .......... for the results. I've got my first scan tomorrow - anxious and excited, will report in afterwards.
satya - good luck! ! You say who's next, I'm really hoping it will be me, but then again, there are other ladies who probably deserve it more than me
You HAVE to let us know when the results come in.. I'm still so happy for you!
Hi everyone,
I just got out of hospital. Two days ago I was watching TV when suddenly (as in leaving a trail of blood all the way to the bathroom) I began losing a LOT of blood and having cramps. DH called an ambulance and I was raced in. Lost soo much blood and massive clots (6 the size of my fist). Had lots of tests and finally found out that a) I wasn't pregnant and it wasn't a new miscarriage b) There was a 2.2cm piece left from the last D&C in April (!!!!!) which my body was trying to desperately pass (so in some sense, it *was* a miscarriage...). So I had to face my biggest fear: having another D&C (after the last one went so badly and I could have died, lost 2.5L of blood). I was so scared this morning but everything went smoothly and I'm home again now.
I am relieved it wasn't a second miscarriage (if you know what I mean), it makes sense now why I have had weird bleeding and cycles since April and I am relieved that is the reason I haven't got pregnant again yet. Thankfully I don't need a blood transfusion but am now anaemic so have iron pills again.
Everyone was really really supportive, given my very real fears, and they think that I will be in great shape to get pregnant again after I get my period back.
I am hoping to re-join this thread in a month's time, and that this nightmare is all behind me now. I will probably go in the "waiting for a/f" thread to stay sane but keep an eye on things here.
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CONGRATS satya, I am so happy for you.
kiwigirl - good luck with everything there - I'll probably still be in the Waiting For AF thread by the time you come back
*las* - I'm all good with it - I wasn't expecting anything to be totally honest, I was expecting it to be a BFN - although I'm feeling sick still and have had numerous headaches.
Kiwigirl - oh my goodness! You poor thing. What a horrendous ordeal to have to go through. I think you deserve a massively big huge ginormous box of chocs after having to go through all that. I hope things settle down for you and that you can rest and look after yourself for a little while.
Wow, i've been away for a while and there's so much news here. i wish it was all happy, but i'll start off with the not so happy stuff...
Pash, I am so sorry for what you've been through, i can't believe you're still having to search for answers and i hope your doctors find them very, very soon. There aren't really words to say what i want to, but please know i am thinking of you and praying your luck turns around soon.
Kiwigirl, i got such a shock to read your post. In retrospect it makes sense (everything does i suppose) with the bleeding you had a while back and the spotting and cramping this cycle. But still, what a shock. I'm glad it wasn't another m/c too, and have my fingers crossed you will have some successful TTC'ing soon.
Las, so sorry to read about your news too, be kind to yourself.
Junebug, i was really sad reading your story. it's not fair to lose a baby and i just don't know how anyone can be expected to deal with it. i take my hat off to you and Lee - you're both amazing women who deserve only the best in life.
To Satya, Leyla and Shoegal - hurrah!!!!! Good luck with your pregnancies. I read something the other day that said 'trust your dreams more than your fears' and that's really helped me get through mine. Looking forward to reading your news over the next few months.
Whoever said the BFPs are coming in threes was right. I hope August brings lots of BFPs for you wonderful women.
Liz Jessie - everyone in here deserves a BFP, and trust me there will be more very soon - I've been here for a while (5 cycles) and I keep noticing they happen in threes.
Kiwigirl - what a horrible experience. At least now you will have had a really good clean out which will leave plenty of space for a new pregnancy to implant. Take care.
I will have my BT results at lunchtime today so will be back on in about 6 hours to post whatever the result in for those of you who are interested. The GP marked the test urgent without me having to ask for it which was very nice of her. I'm very nervous of the result as last time I was already in the midst of a m/c before I'd even got to the doctor for a BT. I'm wishing for a nice big number today.
This is all very new to me so I hope I'm in the right place. I had a m/c in Jan this year and was delighted to find out that I was pregnant again 3 months later. We told everybody this time as everything seemed to be going so well. I was feeling nauseus and there was a heartbeat at 6 weeks. When we went in for the 12 week scan, it showed that the baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks. It was very dissappointing but we are waiting fro the ok to try again. It is a missed m/c and my ob wants to wait just a couple more weeks to see if it will misscarry naturally so as to avoid a d&c. Was anyone else advised to wait?
Look forward to hearing from someone, and please let me know if I'm in the wrong place.
Got my BT results. Definately UTD. HCG levels low at 20 so have to get another BT done on Monday. My GP is not at all concerned about the HCG level she's only sending me for it because I was thinking I should be around 50 or so by now.
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