thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #7

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Toccara - A little getaway sounds like a fabulous idea! Don't forget to take the scented candles and bubble bath with you

    AJC - oooh, I hope you get to see your bubba on Monday!!! I bet that each beat of it's little heart will make you feel a little more secure and at ease

    Larz
    - Hi sweetheart. I'm so very sorry that not only did you lose your angel, but a tube as well But I am very glad that you have found us. I promise that the girls in here are amazing and we will all help you through the rest of your TTC journey!
    How far into the TWW are you? I think you are amazingly brave to have started trying again so quickly (I did too after I lost my angel) and I hope that this is your lucky month

    WTH - Good on you for organising a second opinion. I think it's always worth getting a second opinion for something that so important. Even if they recommend the exact same thing at least you can go forward with total confidence. And if his recommendations are different, then at least you know you have some options.
    All the best sweetness!
    PS. I think the blue is pretty, and goes perfectly with your planned holiday to the Blue mountains

    Joey - Enjoy your camp! Sounds like fun!

    Jen - Ummmm, wake up! I finished the book!!!

    Megsmum - How did you appointment go today honey? I hope it went well for you
    Last edited by ~ Mylitta ~; July 29th, 2008 at 06:18 PM.

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Cycle List

    WTH - So sorry sweetheart
    Jen - CD1
    Vanaithi - CD3
    Acria - CD6
    Angel Babies - CD7
    Sandy - CD9 (ish)
    Easha - CD9
    Joey - CD13
    Jodsan - CD14
    Issy - CD16
    Mollycat - CD16

    Larz - TWW
    LizJessie - TWW
    Smilanatu - CD20
    Chappas - CD21
    Sandygirl - CD23
    pbstar - 1-2DPO
    Krystie - 2DPO
    Toccara - 5DPO
    Tutmae - 7DPO
    Rachel - 13DPO
    megsmum - 19DPO

    Ruthie - 4w
    Tina - 6w4d
    Bettyboop - 7w6d
    Jenushska - 10w6d
    SaraJane 11w
    Laura - 11w6d
    AJC - 14w1d
    Mel A - 13w6d
    mmteacher- 15w3d
    Canary - 15w6d
    plc - 16w3d
    Katiegirl - 25w3d
    Nickster - 26w4d

  3. #3
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    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Hi ladies

    Jen- Sorry Af showed her ugly face

    Rachel- Wondering how you're doing hope ok

    Toccara- Hope you're feeling bit better

    KL and Pbstar- Hope your 2ww flies by and you both get BFP soon

    Larz- So sorry to hear of your loss, glad you found this place, ladies on here really supportive. Take care

    Joey- Hope you enjoy time at camp

    WTH - hope time away at blue mountains goes well

    AFM- Seems like forever trying to get on to BB. This 2ww seems s0000 long already! Finally got some sleep last night though. Going to see Dark Knight this week anyone seen it yet?

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Chappas - I saw The Dark Knight yesterday at IMAX. The movie was fantastic and the scenes that were filmed for IMAX were amazing. I actually felt my stomach lurch at one point because I felt like I was falling!
    The whole movie is great, but Heath Ledger took his character to the whole next level! He WAS the joker! He acted the role perfectly, even down to the finest detail like the freaky little mouth thing he does. You'll love it, lol. I must say that although Christian Bale is an awesome Batman, Heath Ledger really stole the show.
    Enough of my ranting... Have a great time watching it!!!

  5. #5
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    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    Jen: Damn AF! Sorry hon, hope you're feeling ok.

    WTH: Enjoy your holiday! Hope it is super relaxing!

    Joey: Enjoy camp!!!! YAY!

    AFM: Well, FF say Io'd on cd 15, but FC says I o'd on cd 19. I have better chances of concieving by FC terms, so I'm still in the tww, but with a 6 day difference between the dates. Hmph! Off to dinner with dh now. SHould be lovely (we never get to go out for dinner what with our lack of any sort of decent money, so looking forward to it!

    for all of you girls! And lots of

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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    Ok why am I up at 5am !!!

    The dark knight was great movie I saw it last week ...

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    Oct 2007
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    Tutmae - Hate to tell you, but I'm thinking that CD19 is looking more like your ovulation day to me. But then again, I'm not expert so I'm just guessing. Have a lovely dinner!

    Toccara
    - 5AM!!! What is wrong with you girl?! I like to pretend that anything before 7am doesn't actually exist

  8. #8
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Hi All,

    Firstly damned computer couldn't get on last night or this morning. I have missed you guys

    Rachel and Jen - so sorry AF arrived..... what's happening with July.... very few BFP's this means the odds are much greater for us all in Aug - bring on Aug I say

    Toccara - sorry to hear you are feeling down... there is no rhyme nor reason when sadness hit hey... Tonight the had the friends episode where Rachel had her baby.... I cried and cried and cried... over Friends !!!! Hope you are feeling better now

    Issy - I have also put you appt in my calendar ... you now have what - 15 odd women to remind you

    KL - the Ov pain sounded bad but I am sure this is the egg of ALL eggs....the mother of all eggs that is ready and waiting for fertilisation

    Larz - welcome sweety - sorry you have to join us for this reason. How long have you been taking your temps??? using FF would assist with monitoring everything. just see the attachment below of my chart and you can start your own - first mth free.

    WTH - clomid can't help... I imagine it would also be cheaper than going to IVF. I personally dont know too much about it though - best of luck

    PLC - good to hear from you.... so excited your starting to feel somehting in there

    Joey - have an awesome holiday... will post after my gyno appt but wont get back on line to next Wed

    Megsmum - 19DPO - what's happening????

    Tutamae - hope you have a great dinner... I actually agree with KL that you may have Ov on day 19 - again no expert - just keep doin the do !!

    AFM - plodding along... I am now 9DPO however I also was late by 6 days. I have started to get really watery CM so I was thinking - could I be fertile/Ov early... The temps are still low - just weird for me that's all. Dont know whether I should be using the OPK tests early (FYI - have been Ov day 19)

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
    66

    Hi All,

    Thanks so much for all your replies and best wishes!

    Easha / Kristielove - I'm not currently using FF, I am seeing a herbalist that specialises in fertility and she has given me a chart for my temp.

    Chappas- Thanks sweetie

    Vanaithi - Everybody says don't think about it, but not thinking about it is the hardest thing to do. I wish you all the best for the future and hope all of our dreams come true!!!

    I am a little paranoid today, I'm day 18 and already I feel as if I'm pregnant....think it may just all be
    in my head and I may be going crazy!! Spoke to my doc this morning and going for a blood test this afternoon!!!! Does anyone know if it's possible to feel a pregnacy this early...let alone test for one???

    Feeling a little a scared becasue I want nothing more than to be pregnant but so scared of another ectopic!!

  10. #10
    Registered User

    May 2008
    Melbourne
    125

    hello ladies..

    wth:

    jen: we're still cycle buddies! i've got a longer cycle, so you'll catch up in no time!

    plc, tina, ajc, ruthie, betty, sarajane, jenushka & all the other pg ladies:

    krystie, jen, wth, lizjessie, pbstar, tutmae, smilanatu, tocarra, chappas, jodsan, acria, joey, issy, molly, & ttc ladies: :goodluck2:

    newbies: WELCOME!

    sorry everyone, this is going to be my last post for a while...

    dh said to me yesterday that i think about it too much & that he's going to get my thermometers & temp record book & chuck them all away (how did i fall pg the first time - without all these things?) ... he didnt end up throwing them away, but i think he's right.

    all the temp checking every morning & stressing out about ttc doesnt help me to relax & fall pg - i've been crying almost every night now & close to tears every day when i think of something sad - which is the only thing i feel now..

    this morning i didnt check my temp & i feel good about it - not worried that my chart is ruined because of a missed temp. & glad that i can now sleep more without worrying about temping!

    i'll be relying on my instincts & symptoms to bd, & now that i know that my fertile period is from cd 16 to 22.

    i'll still be lurking around... watching everyone & waiting to congrat you all on your bfps!

    so goodnight ladies, stay happy & positive - i'll be thinking of you all now & then! (cant think of you all the time or else thats too much thinking!)


  11. #11
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    Jun 2008
    135

    I tried to post last night and I'd written quite a lot too... shame it didn't work.
    Sorry to keep you all wondering how I am... well the answer in short isn't very positive sorry.

    I am fine in myself generally, although very spotty and hormonal which is irratating the bjeez out of me. I took myself riding yesterday to try and take my mind off of things, I cantered up and down the beach and blew away some cobwebs. I think its the only thing which actually takes my mind off things at this time.

    Last night I had this horrid dream though, I had a baby and it was TINY... I mean tiny and I knew it wouldn't survive, I woke up feeling quite depressed and ill. I am about to go and get a bath, even though its mid afternoon and try to 'boost myself up a bit'.

    I am convinced I have had yet another chem preg and quite frankly I'm ready to throw the towel in.