TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08 #2

[plc1805]

G'morning all - been up for ages on account of not getting back to sleep after a nightmare about spiders in their webs and then chasing me.... tried to google it for some meaning but am none the wiser - so here I am on BB

Magda - I'm thinking that ur friend is ur friend for a reason so am not about to question that so all i have to say is that this lady sounds like she has some "issues" like u and others have eluded to and i don't think she is the type of person you need to be around at the mo. you need to draw on life's positives and this person is dragging u down and perhaps making you lose sight of how wonderful life is for you right now. Sweet - u r pg - so wear that badge with honour!! Sheesh - i just can't get over some people and their insensitivities...mutter...mutter....mutter.... huge huge !!

Trac - with all the people in here, it is easy to lose trtack of what is actually going on. I hope i have this right but how is ur dad going with his treatment?

Canary - sweet - i know that feeling but u seem to be ok (iykwim) and i am so glad that ur TWW has been ok also for you. It aint over til AF shows of course - but in the event of AF, I will join you for a cyber vino!!!

AJC - oh!!! hope ur o-ing !!!!

betty - so very very very very pleased op went well - let the prayers and bd-ing (when ok to) begin!!!!

tempus - for tomorrow!!!!!

Hey everyone else - hugs to you all.

AFM, 13 days to go before we can TTC again - hopefully - and then light will definitely be on!!!

[nicksterUK]

Hi all! Just wanted to wish you all well and throw a few tonnes of around for those about to POAS (everything's crossed!) and TWW, plus those of you who are hoping to make April your month
Well, this is me SERIOUSLY!! Have made it past the dreaded 11 weeks (personally agonising to get this far) only to find a confusion over my dates! I asked the midwife if she could try to hear the heartbeat (was so very anxious this week) and she said it probably wouldn't pick up at 10-11 weeks but she would try...so there it was, good and strong on the left side. She said 'you must be 16 weeks- your uterus is measuring at 16weeks' I said 'impossible' and then she said 'I'll listen to the heartbeat again because bubs seems quite high up, I'm sure you're measuring at 16 weeks not 11' only this time the heartbeat was on the right hand side' so bubs either moved damned fast....or it's more than one bub!! She started laughing and saying 'well that would explain enlarged uterus' (I just had gob open and closing like a goldfish) and we've got ultrasound booked for next Thursday. So now I just wait and see. Oh blimey!
Am thrilled to get this far, and to hear the heartbeat so strongly, but I really can't see how I can be 16 weeks when the BFN's popped up frequently, and the BFP was a week later than I thought it might be.... hmmmm puzzling....
will keep you posted whether it's one advanced pg, or a HUGE fat bub, or more than 1 (11weeks+) of course xx
Believe me, the health service here is in no rush to provide quick answers!
Love n hugs all, am always thinking of you and looking out for BFP's (congrats Magda- don't fret about your so-called pal, sounds like she is a right whinge bag and you're better off without people like her! x)

[Trac73]

:Good Morning to Everyone

plc1850 -Thanks for asking about Dad... He is doing ok with his treatment, we found out yesterday his treatment has been extended to May but lets just hope the extra radiation gets the little b******s. He appears well other than a little bit of sleepiness and a few pains in his belly he is ok.

Magda - I cannot believe a friend would say such a thing take care of yourself and i hope a BFP appears really soon

Betty -glad to hear the op went well for a BFP soon.

Nickstar -How exciting maybe being further than you thought or more than one. I am glad you were able to hear the heartbeat and you have made it through the dreaded 11 weeks. Take Care of yourself and your little bundle of joy

HI the everyone else.

AFM - Well i woke this morning and had to know, so i POAS and before my eyes i received a Oh my Gosh what a surprise. I could not believe it. I would only be about 3 and a half weeks but wow i am so excited and so is my DH. We are going to have a Christmas gift. Will ring family today mum, dad, inlaws and sister but other than that we have decided not to tell anyone until 12 weeks. Keeping that this one is a stickyvibesgirl:

Keeping my for everyone else, i am thinking of you all

[plc1805]

YAY!!!!! TRAC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!! We have another win for the team!!!!! Well done and congrats to both you and DH!! and lots of rest too cos we want a sticky sticky bub!!!!!!!!!!!

[bettyboop]

trac wow that is great news congrats

[MistyFying]

Time for a new thread ladies. Here you go