TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08

[Natty]

Hi Ladies

Wow so much gets posted in such a short time!

Brockstar - hope DS is feeling better. Your u/s sounds promising. Sending you lots of best wishes for it to be positive!

Jodsan - sorry about your GF funeral. They always take a lot out of you so be sure to look after yourself the next few weeks.

Seenabeena - sorry that you are joining this group because it means you had to suffer the loss of your little one. But as I have found the ladies here are wonderful.

Trac - hope your Dad is feeling ok. I so wish you get a BFP both for you and DH and your Dad.

Tempus moriendi - sorry to sound ignorant but was is a hysteroscopy? The four follicles sounds positive - isnt that eggs that are ready to be released? If so, I hope that a little swimmer meets one of them very soon!

Danielsgirl112 - sorry to hear that you too are joining this group. Take your time to grieve and remember to look after yourself.

AJC - dont you hate when wherever you go there are pregnant women? I work in a hospital with a large maternity section and ever since my m/c it seems like the number of pregnant women attending the hospital has quadrupled. Even just seeing a pregnant woman from a distance is like having an ice bucket thrown over my head (even though I am happy for them!)

TinaK - when DH's mum comes over for 2-3 weeks we always BD in the shower - she cant hear because the exhaust fan is on!

Plc - isnt it so hard when all your friends are having babies when you wanted/planned on having them? I have had to revise the 'gap' between DD and our next baby about ten different times for various reasons including m/c and it makes it so hard when you see your friends doing what you want your life to be doing. Your day will come though - when it is right for you.

Bec - another ignorant question - what is POAS? Good luck with the 4 assignments? What are you studying?

I actually have a TTC question. I have been BDing nearly every second day with DH and have been using OPKs every day since Sunday (Saturday night now). We BD'd on Friday, Sunday, Tuesday and Friday but nothing showing on the OPK's (not even a faint line) but on Wednesday night I had CM which I normally have right before O (and I am pretty sure it wasnt swimmers - sorry for TMI!!). I wont describe it because its gross but it is something which I normally have happen so I am assuming from that it was O. But then how can it be if I havent had anything show up on the OPK? I dont temp chart because I can never remember so CM and OPKs are the only way I know....

Hope you are all having a great weekend.

[berecca623]

Natty - POAS is **** On A Stick, elegant I know!!! I am studying my second year of a Grad Dip of Psychology, at the moment I am a teacher, working fully time. As for your question, when are you using the OPK? Sorry for the question for a question! I would safe keep doing what you are doing until you do get a + OPK and keep going until a - OPK, make sense??

Good morning ladies, such an emotional day for me today!

Woke up at 6am to take my temp which hasn't dropped, and then took 20 min to convince myself to get up and POAS even though I was busting for the loo

Anyway then took another 10 min to get the courage up to look and see and imagine my shock and surprise when I saw I woke up DH straight away, and needless to say at first he wasn't all that impressed! and his reponse "let's just wait and see". Very safe of him but I understand!

I am so happy, excited, elated, amazed, nervous and a tad scared! The pg line was fainter than the other but easily seen at a distance. It is darker than my last pg. I have decided to be positive as possible for this pg and hope this also helps it to stick. Next step is booking the ob, I don't want to miss out.

Anyway there is my news, albeit I am still pinching myself to make sure it is true!

[plc1805]

Berecca - already posted on 2WW but had to congratulate u again!!! Ur DH has good grounding but don't allow urself to miss the joy of a BFP!! Well done!!