thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ October 07 #3

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    Sep 2007
    Brisbane, QLD
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    Hey Treelo - am so sorry that AF arrived for you. Can completely understand that you are wanting to take a break from things for a while...I'm very much the same at the moment. I want the "BFP" so to speak, but I hate the fact that I'm wishing my life away in two week chunks. I look back to when I had my first m/c in July and think where have these few months gone...I really feel like I've been a bit of a space cadet over recent months - couldn't really tell you what I've done or what I've achieved in that time because I'm always focused on where I am in my cycle. So can understand that you have made the choice to step back for a while and take stock of things in your life - your marriage, your children, and YOU. I wish you all the best with refocusing on you and your family in upcoming months.

    Beaksie - I wish you all the best with the packing & the move in the next 3 weeks. Don't discount a BFP in upcoming months - look at Satya (i.e. when you're not 'trying' and when you least expect it)!!! I hope the move and the transition back to your 'home' town is easy and as fulfilling as you hope it to be.

    LJ - sorry that AF arrived for you too - but you have handled it admirably even though it was such a drawn out process for you this time around.

    Congrats to kiwigirl, cruemum & bunny's mum for your BFPs.

    Zionsmum - thinking of you even though you're keeping a low profile for a few months. Hope you are going ok.

    Hi to Annabelle, Hj, Starrysky, Penny, LSB, MissBelinda, AJC....and everyone else that I've unintentionally missed. Hoping that everyone is 'hanging in there'.

    As for me, I went to my GP on Wed night, and we decided together that I would hold off on any ref to FS/OB for another few months - whilst she acknowledged that she thought there was something peculiar with my cycles (& inconsistent LP), she really thought I should give it a few more months to see if they settle down. Unbelieveably, I'm ok with that. I'm taking a month off in Feb (given my boss approves the leave), so Feb is going to be the last month of trying before I go back to GP to request further testing. I was hoping that I might be pg before christmas (as a lot of us are hoping), but I know that that is out of my hands, and I can't keep ruminating over things I can't control. Will catch up with everyone again soon.
    Last edited by kaib; November 25th, 2007 at 04:46 PM. : typo

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