TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 07 #1

[Wowzer]

satya TEST! TEST!

[STARRYSKY]

hey wowzer whats going on wiv u?

[ElleJay]

I really hope your UTD satya! I really do!

sweetpetite - Thanks, I need as much luck as possible!

[STARRYSKY]

hello lj, so have you piac or poas yet?

[STARRYSKY]

probly not, sorry, getting ahead of myself, i hope september is your month lj

[Beaksie]

Hi everyone. Hope everyone is well. I've got a quick question. This will be TMI but...What is EWCM like? I mean derr, like egg white obviously, but Ive noticed cm today thats clear, kind of goopy (forgive me, but like snot) and stretchy. Is this the stuff? If so, WOO HOO, cause im cd14 today, and full steam ahead for bd tonight!
By the way, wanted to say "welldone" to Satya for showing restraint in the light of her symptoms. I'd be itching to test, however like you, I think its a good idea to wait after AF due date. All the same Good luck, Ive got a feeling...
Hi Starrysky- hope your having a great day. Hope to catch up over the weekend.
Everyone else, big HI and I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. Catch yas
Beaksie

[ElleJay]

probly not, sorry, getting ahead of myself, i hope september is your month lj

Hehehe I wish I was in the TWW stage of things! I just wanna get down to the whole TTC thing! That's it!
But DF put a damper on that last night saying he didn't want to get me pg until we've moved out and living on our own and ready - I am already ready, but I suppose he's not

[STARRYSKY]

hi beaksie! from everything i have been reading that def sounds like ewcm! i think you are meant to be able to stretch it between your fingers....
lj have you explained that having a baby takes 9 months of being pg not to mention ttc doesnt always mean you will fall pg right away?
my dp is giving me the irrits atm, i know that starting his business means he is tired and working alot but h e doesnt seem to understand that i need some attention too!! i sound like a spoiled brat, i know, but what with the m/c and everything, i am not working atm because i was pg i wasnt gonna bother getting a job, maybe i should get off my ass and get one soon..........
How am i supposed to ttc, if we dont bd? still waiting for af too....
this is going to sound a bit silly but i need to know if i am the only one (freak!)
i was talking to my friend yesterday and i realised i was talking in abbreviations, like ttc, cm, etc (she is a nurse, knew what i was on about!) felt like a right dero afterwards, but this is coming from a girl who starts talking in an english accent as soon as i hear one!!! anyone else?

[ElleJay]

Starrysky - I tried, but he's flat out refusing - I'm all for starting for a family - but he's adamant on waiting until we find our own place *shrugs*

[STARRYSKY]

oh well, keep trying, you never know he might "cave"!
ive just realised that i have my cousins wedding in darwin in may next year, i am tossing up wether i should wait till after the wedding or just keep on keeping on, it took us so long last time, mind you i didnt have ff then, i suppose i could just wait a few months, then i wont be too pg to fly over there.
if i hadnt m/c it wouldve worked out perfectly with a 2 mth old and all my interstate family could have met him/her........oh well such is life

[Dawneee]

Beaksie: what you are describing is exactly what I had too.....we had Bd before that as well as that day and after......so good luck and go for it!

[Dawneee]

OMG! WOO HOO my ticker worked! yaaaay!

[littlescottishboy]

HI chickadees.
Well, sadly, it isn't me who will be boarding the next bus to Preggoville.... AF showed up tonight (what a cow). I suppose it's good to know my body is back to some kind of pattern, but i am soooooooooo over TTC. We tried for 9 months to fall preg, then when we did, we had the last m/c, not to mention all the trouble we have had before. I was secretly hoping i was preg this month cos i have been soo tired and grumpy!

Sorry girls, i am in major whinge mode.

Anyway, hope some of you other lovely ladies can board the Preggoville bus this month... and keep a seat warm for me for next month i hope. Sigh... why does it have to be so hard? ...

[Dawneee]

Littlescottishboy: So sorry AF showed up especially after trying for so long,I hope next month is your month.

[kiwigirl]

littlescottishboy: I'm sorry it wasn't your month I know what you mean about being over TTC (and I haven't been trying that long really.. it just feels like it.) Enjoy a glass of wine or two maybe?

[Wowzer]

My HPT turned up, the ones I bought on ebay.... they sent ovulation predicotrs. Grrrr. Better get my money back or some HPT instead.

[STARRYSKY]

Hey wowzer! thats a bit disappointing, i read in another post somewhere about lullaby conceptions, they sound pretty good for hpts and opks, i remember someone got sent the wrong ones so she contacted them and sent out another lot and told her to keep the wrongly sent ones, now thats good service!
Hey dawnee, your ticker looks great!
so sorry af reared its ugly head littlescottishboy, but now you have another whole month in which to catch the egg......can be a daunting prospect at times though, i know.
how are you kiwigirl? i hope everyone is good and looking forward to or already having a fantastic weekend and happy fathers day to those of us who are lucky enough to be blessed with children.
xxx

[sweetpetite]

Hi All-

Question for you...of course the more I think about it, the more nervous I get but at what point should I become a total basket-case about not seeing AF? 8wks post d&C, 9? 12? Does anyone know what the average wait-time is?