treelo - i always said i'd give up at 36, but i just turned 38 and still trying. I never really stopped trying after having Alexander, just spent a few years "not trying" but hoping it would happen, and the pg last year was such a shock especially when it happened straight after our friend was murdered, just goes to show it can happen when least expected, the only thing is i don't have another 10 years to keep trying LOL. Keep positive.