my age thing comes from my mum - i'm the youngest of 7 kids and mum was 40 when i was born, i always thought she was old and didn't want to do the same to my kids, but when it comes down to it, i know i still feel quite young, so i should be the same, just don't want to get old and cranky with a little one.

jen - good luck for tomorrow we'll all cross our fingers for you