Rach - I'm sorry to hear about your loss My DH and I have a similar story to you. I stopped taking the pill 2-3 months before our wedding in preparation for TTC. We actually got too excited and started trying straight away, but we ended up conceive a wedding night baby (I ovulated the morning after the wedding). We had our first scan at 8w1d and found out that our angel had passed away. We were absolutely devasted and I was quite a mess. I had a d&c two days later but I was lucky enough for the procedure to be very successful.

We were told to wait 2 cycles to try again, but once again we jumped the gun and didn't wait any cycles, oops. I'm now 11DPO and have a post-op apt with my ob tomorrow.

I tend to trust my knowledge of my body more than what FF tells me, so if you think you are 9DPO, then you probably are. The month I conceived FF was telling me I ovulated on the Tuesday, when I knew 100% that I had ovulated the Saturday before! Then about a week later FF moved my ovulation lines to what I knew, lol!

I hope your journey to get your beloved baby is not much longer

pbstar - OMG I bargained with myself too!! I told myself that if I didn't test this morning (which I didn't) then maybe I would let myself test tomorrow morning before I go to my ob apt... Seems silly to do it before I see him, but a deal is a deal yeah? Hehehe.

Missy - Congrats on biting the bullet and joining us here. Welcome to the TWW! I say screw the odds and bring on the BFP!!

Bettyboop - So sorry to hear that AF came. I hope that it's a nice big cleansing AF so that next cycle you will be all fresh and ready for a BFP!

Vanaithi - I had a peek at your chart and commenting in the TTC thread for you. I might not be much help though. I don't think you would get cramps due to an impending AF as early as 2dpo. A fertilised egg takes about 5 days to travel to the uterus, and then another 2-5 days to implant, so your body wouldn't even know yet if you had conceived or not yet. Take heart in that and try to stay positive sweetness. My fingers are crossed for you and you are in my thoughts.

Issy - Yes! We are all in this together! One big happy (stressed, anxious, excited, and a million other emotions) family!!!