I am relatively new to this place, and I would like to share some things about myself.
I am 30 years old, and have 3 beautiful boys - 11, 7 and nearly 2.....
My wonderful fiancee and I have been together for over 3 years now, greatest thing that ever happened to me...
Anyway, we have been TTC for 1 year now. We have beenn through 3 miscarriages, since the birth of our son, first one was in May 2008, started bleeding on Mothers Day...was not a happy mothers day....
Second mc happened just before valentines day this year (2009), and with both of those mc's had to have d/c. First was an emergency d/c because it was a mmissed mc, baby stopped growing at 5 weeks, but didnt start bleeding until 12 weeks. Second mc was spotted because we had an early scan, was an empty egg, no fetal pole, nothing....so i tried the new trial of the Misoprostol......2 doses of that and a bit of bleeding but didnt work, so i ended up having a d/c a week later anyway......
Now last month it was my birthday, on the 26th May, had a party on the 23rd, so i did a test on the friday beforehand, was negative, so i thought great, now i can drink! My period was due on saturday (day of the party), and low and behold they didnt come......so early sunday morning i did a test and it was positive...now the problem was i went to the dr on monday morning to confirm, and i started spotting.........and kept bleeding through out the week....so it was to be a mc...
Ok so here is the bit i am wonderig about....we have been trying now again this month, charted my ov days, and had heaps of loving during those 4 days, and I am due on the 24th or 25th, which is tomorrow or thursday...I have been having symptoms, sore boobies, loads of energy (cleaning like mad), going to the loo heaps and all the usual stuff, i did a test this morning and it was neg......now I am just waiting until i either get my monthlies or do a test early thursday morning.............
Do you know what else I am upset about? Almost every woman around me is pg........my cousin, my best friend, my fiancee's best friends girlfriend....and my sister-in-law...........i just hope its my turn next
Last edited by Kass79; June 24th, 2009 at 08:18 AM.
: Added a bit on the end
i am so so very sorry for you losses, its so unfair and heartbreaking, BUT you have come to the right place, there are so many wonderful people on here that can help and support you and answer any questions you might have
i hope and pray that this is your month, your symptoms sound very promising, maybe implantation was a few days later this cycle and thats why you didnt get a positive today, maybe try testing in a few days with FMU and hopefully you will get a BFP!! sending lots and lots of sticky vibes your way
Hi mummy2chloe, thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers...and thanks for welcoming me....
Well its wednesday morning, and nothing so far, usually i get them in the morning, so thats a pos sign, just scared to go out and do a test, in case i get disappointed again.....really sick and tired of seeing neg results - i have done 4 tests this week already...lol hoping to see a + result, but not seeing even the feintest +....but i can say from experience that even with a little bit of hcg in my body i get symptoms, i tend to really clean the house out, and i mean clean like mad, i got out the mould remover the other day and cleaned the walls and the ceiling......lol
so i guess i will get back to you later today, i guess i will go out and buy a test and do it.....wish me luck.................
guess it isnt meant to be this month afterall...............so strange considering I have quite a few symptoms..but i guess that can mean my period is coming too....i am just so confused and really sad now.........
i woke up feeling quite sick in the belly this morning, i dry reached 3 times, and am still quite nausious...my boobs and my nipples are very sensative....i just dont understand....am i going crazy or am i over obsessing?
oh sweetie i am so sorry about preg test big hugs from me xxx
maybe give it a few days and if af hasnt shown up do another one, your symptoms really do sound like your pregnant!! there is one way of telling your pregnant or not, that is getting a blood test maybe that could be an option for you too?? either way you will have a definant answer
i really hope you get a bfp, i have everything crossed for you sweetie xxx
Ok, well, first of all, thanks for the support mummy2chloe, means alot that i have someone i can talk to.
So here it goes, i did another test this morning, was neg again, and i am pretty sure they are due today. If they dont come today, i will do another test tomorrow, but if they do, I just have to wait and work out my ov days next month, so we can just keep on trying...........
Waiting, Waiting, Waiting
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