After my first loss, mcc 12& half weeks with d&c feb 03, ex hubby & I waited about 4 cycles & got pregnant pretty much straight away which result in an ectopic at 9wks & the loss of my left tube in aug 03.
This time, early mc may 13, we've tried again straight away & we're in the dreaded 2ww.....

I think the difference (for me anyway) has been the earliness (is that a word? lol) of the pregnancy, lack of medical intervention, a supportive partner & I feel stronger within myself & have coped better with the grief.