I know how you feel.. I have asked this question so many times over and over.. I also hate when people say we lost our babies cos 'things happen for a reason' or 'We all have lessons to learn'.. I often wonder why babies would be given abusive parents instead of me as their mummy or what lesson those poor kids have to learn.. I am feeling a bit poor me over the last couple of days too.. Life is just unfair, simple as that!