I know what you mean about FS not wanting to give credit to views held by other medical practitioners. When I started seeing my accupuncturist she asked which FS I was seeing. Her response was 'That's good, he's open to accupuncture and herbs, where as Dr X is totally against it".
Our aim is to sort our bodies out and achieve that baby, so it's frustrating when we have to fight the doctors that are there to help us. Wouldn't it be oh so nice for your FS to be open to ideas and say 'let's give it a go and see what happens' after all you are paying for his service.
I know my FS is so completely dead set against some of these things because a friend of mine has brought them up with him... his reaction to her was so extreme that I'm not brave enough to even mention it to him!
Fortunately, I've got a friend in the industry (obstetrics registrar), she got back to me today and said that if I'm taking low dose aspirin and don't actually need it, it's not going to do any harm. So I'm looking at it from the perspective of it's not going to make things any worse, and it could actually help, so I'll be starting aspirin after my next egg collection, assuming I'm going straight to transfer this time.
Of course, I've got no idea how to explain to my obstetrician when I'm pregnant why I'm on aspirin when it's not mentioned in the letter from my FS... but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it!
I've really been stuck on how the medical profession decides what levels are ok and what levels aren't. How do they decide that a level of 1.1 is ok, but a level of 1.2 isn't?... and who's to say that someone with a level of 1.3 can't be completely ok despite their number? It's probably one of those tricky questions that nobody can answer and it all comes down to "averages". I know too much about statistics to be content with that... aspirin it is!
Oh sweetheart your frustration is tangible... I so hear you on how specialists often don't see you as a wholistic person... just a set of organs that is their "speciality". I'm dealing with this myself for my own health issues.... and I've started seeing an acupuncturist... and a natropath who from the start of my diagnosis gave me a whole lot more faith than any of the 'Western medicos'. At least my GP told me today that he has a lot of "respect" for acupuncture (I raised it very tentatively). He told me that when he was studying he was involved in a very extensive study at (I think) the University of Queensland that tested a group of patients with spinal conditions (gave them acupuncture) against a control group who had a placebo (not sure how they did that! Maybe put the needles in the wrong places ). Anyhow he says there were definite results that indicated acupuncture was a valid treatment. This same GP dismisses everything else my natropath says mind you... but it was still positive to hear him speak so highly of acupuncture.
Look, I'd take things into your own hands regarding the low dose asprin... especially when you have professional advice that says it would do no harm. Maybe try the product that people use on long-haul flights? I took a low dose asprin daily for a week leading up to, during my holiday and the return flight from Europe. I'm paranoid about thrombosis.
Be informed (I know you are) and keep researching. If I followed blindly the advice of specialists I wouldn't be where i am today either (I self diagnosed my Cholestasis and also rejected their methods of induction, maybe I'm becoming arrogant but perhaps it's also called taking full responsibilty for my health and that of my children)... It seems to me you just need a little more sense of being in control and if this is all it takes I say go for it.
Thank you, Bathsheba. At times I feel like I'm just obsessing about things too much, but your words are helping me realise that I am the only one that knows my body. I guess we get so programmed to trust the doctors because they are the ones that have done all the study... but I've got a consultant rheumatologist that can't even tell me what's wrong with me. My FS can't tell me why I keep losing my babies, or even why my embryos don't thaw well (he can make guesses, but can't tell me for sure)... I guess it comes down to needing to do whatever it is that makes us feel comfortable. My FS can say that it's only working on head stuff all he likes, but dammit, I need that head stuff too!
Thank you, again, for helping me to find the courage to stand up to the medical professionals and make my own decisions.
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). Anyhow he says there were definite results that indicated acupuncture was a valid treatment. This same GP dismisses everything else my natropath says mind you... but it was still positive to hear him speak so highly of acupuncture.
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