HAPPY BIRTHDAY LANEY! I hope you have a wonderful day. I can only imagine how nervous you are. Hang in there and here's to baby making lots of little waves in there.
Theresa, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy Zachary. How cruel to get that far and not take him home. I am sending you a very big hug and a truck load of support. Welcome to our thread. I am and hoping we all get our BFPs and the new year brings our much wanted earth babies.
Tildy, thanks for the words of encouragement, nice story. Enjoy your time away and wishing you and your family a wonderful Xmas and hope Kebab gets loads of attention.
Apologies in advance for the rant but I had such a flat weekend and was in tears for most of the time Dropped off loads of Xmas presents to the kids in our family and had a house full of guests last night including kids (one a newborn). I worked myself into such a state after they left I was throwing up like mad. I love them dearly but it just hurts so much and makes me miss my little boy desperately. I guess I am a little nervous about my pg test tomorrow too. I really feel like AF is coming though but obviously praying it doesn't.
The eeriest thing is my little boy was due on the anniversary of my mum's death and if I fall pg this cycle, the baby would be due on her birthday. Of all the dates in the year. Is this a sign girls?
Again, sorry for the rant. I know you are all feeling emotional and missing your angel babies.
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I made it ! Thanks for the advice on how to get onto this thread...
I'm sorry you're feeling so down ATM, I know it can be very hard to be around small children and little babies, because it reminds us what could have been. I miss my litle boy too, I have lots of little talks with him which makes me feel a little bit better .
Sending you lots of big hugs and good luck for your test tomorrow
Girls, I'm so sorry for your losses, my heart goes out to you all .
Hi Beata! Welcome, glad you found us. Looking forward to getting to know you. It is definitely a tough time of year for us but you will find amazing support here. So when is your operation scheduled for?
Yey ! I think I was going around in circles before you pointed me in the right direction..thanks heaps !
My operation is on 16/01, I'm on holidays now until 12/01 than back to work for 4 days and then 6 weeks off recovering from the operation. They told me the recovery is similar to a c section ( I said that's nice, but I haven't had one before !).
Hi everyone and very warm welcome to Beata & Theresa, I hope you find our little corner of the world a safe place to be! Beata what sort of operation do you have to have?
Jo if your out there, just sent you a message on facebook, I hope all is OK, how is your Grandma going?
Diana fingers crossed for tomorrow, maybe the throwing up wasn't all that stress related???? You did very well to have all those children around you.
Laney I hope you had a great Bday, speaking of bday's, DH and I are shockers just realised we both missed my nieces 2 days ago and his father's yesterday! Oops...
Well on my front, I have some flutters, YAY!! On the down side I have also felt some BH's, they seem to come earlier for me each time, has anyone had them this early? I guess what makes me nervous is that that's what my early labour tends to be like, I can't wait to have my scan in 2 wks time, it can't come quick enough, every ache, twinge etc makes me wonder if my cervix is shortening....
Good luck to all out there TTC, may Xmas bring us all hope and joy for the New Year.
Thanks for your warm welcome. I thought I'd read your posts to get to know all the lovely girls in this thread, and you all sound so nice ! Can't wait to get to know you all better, you've got a terrific support network here.
I've got a myectomy (sp?) operation where they'll remove a very big fibroid from my uterus wall where it's sleeping nicely ATM ( my fibroid died around the same time I lost Joshua ). It needs removing as my OB won't take another risk at IVF with me while I've got that fibroid there. I have one beautiful frosty bub waiting....
Sending you big hugs and good luck with your next scan. I can imagine how nerve wrecking it all is for you ATM, I reckon I'll feel the same if I get pregnant again....just think good thoughts, your bub will feel them too.... Good luck and I'm sending you relaxing vibes !
Thanks Beata, I'm trying to be calm about things, but it's just the waiting, if somehow we could just skip this part that would be great! I am so sorry to hear about little Joshua passing, did the fibriod have anything to do with it? Good job your OB is taking it out, it may set you back a little with recovery, but when you DO get pregnant again, you will have given your bub a nice cosy uterus to snuggle in!
Welcome Theresa and Beata. So sad that you have to join us but glad that you have found us. We are all hoping that 2009 brings us our earth angels. I'm sending an extra sprinkling of baby dust to you both for the New Year!
Laney: happy birthday I hope you got exactly what you wanted on your special day.
Helen: yay for the flutters and bugger about the BH. If its any consolation I remember reading about them starting really early in pregnancy and it being completely normal. Lets hope the next 2 weeks fly by and you will soon have the reassurance you need. Is there any other option for you in terms of having a check up between now and then so you can put your mind at ease?
DD: sounds like you've been having such a rough time of it. Lets hope the emotion and nausea are from a BFP and not what you think. I know that is usually my first sign of being pregnant (after the sore boobies) I just start crying at the drop of a hat. Not saying you didn't have good reason to be upset but I'm just trying to be optimistic about a good PGT result!!
Tildy: sounds like you have a crazy and delightful few days ahead with your in-laws. How lovely that you will have everyone there to make a fuss over Kebab and your big belly. I remember with Ethan just being so excited that he was loved by so many people even before he was born. Its lovely to think of Kebab being a part of all that craziness this time next year!
Megan: Im glad you are trying to focus on being grateful for what you have in your life rather than what you don't. Supposedly gratitude is the first step to abundance so its a good way to go. I am looking forward to us both having some exciting BFP news early in the New Year.
Lan: sounds like DH better watch out!! I know mine can't wait. AF is due between xmas and New Years and then all bets are off! I think I will pee my pants with excitement when you get your BfP!!
Hi to everyone else. I will hopefully have time for a proper xmas post tomorrow or Wednesday.
and a truck load of support. Welcome to our thread. I am
and hoping we all get our BFPs and the new year brings our much wanted earth babies.
Dropped off loads of Xmas presents to the kids in our family and had a house full of guests last night including kids (one a newborn). I worked myself into such a state after they left I was throwing up like mad. I love them dearly but it just hurts so much and makes me miss my little boy desperately. I guess I am a little nervous about my pg test tomorrow too. I really feel like AF is coming though but obviously praying it doesn't.
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