Hi girls

Oh Laney, sorry if this is too forward but what your sister said was just awful and very hurtful I am so sorry you had to leave early and that this Xmas ended on a sour note with your family. I just can't believe nobody understands how fragile we all are - we didn't break the heel on our favourite pair of shoes for God's sake, we lost babies!

Theresa, I'm glad you're feeling a little stronger today and you're right, this time is hell - worse than hell actually.

Tildy, glad your Xmas went well.

Sue, glad the BD went smoothly! Bet your DH is the happiest man on earth right now How exciting getting all those kicks. It must be so wonderfully reassuring.

Lan, sounds like you had a rough day also. Are you close to testing?

Rozzie, good for you for doing what you and DH want. I wish I had the courage to do the same. I have really learnt alot about my family since losing Sebastian - they are cowards.

Beata, how nice of your DFs SIL to ask how you were, sometimes it's the people you least expect. Sorry you have been having issues with your mum. I hope you can get your relationship back on track and that she learns to respect your feelings. Thanks for the tip on the book, I will try and find it.

Hi Jo. Glad you had an ok day and are in a nice room now. Hold on nice and tight cervix!

Paula, what a wonderful toast DH made, especially to include your little girl. He is a gem. I am so very pleased your family is supportive and doesn't shy away from talking about Charlie. Your clairvoyant visit sounds very promising! Here is to a BFP for you next month!!

Hope everyone else is doing ok.

Girls, I am certain the new year will welcome healthy and happy babies for our pg ladies, and BFPs for all of us TTC. Again, I am so very sorry to all of you that have suffered over the Xmas period. It's nearly over.......

Lots of love