I am not sure what the difference is between the genetic councilor and genetic specialist? Perhaps in your situation they need the autopsy results first so they know what they are looking for when testing you and your DH? We had our chromosomes checked while I was pg to see if one of us had mosacism, I think it only took 2-wks at the most to confirm that we didn't. When I saw the genetic councilor with the information he had from Jasmine's tests (pre-autopsy), he got us to have another blood test through the hospital where they were looking for a very rare gene (again all clear). So I am thinking that maybe they need Abbi's result to know what to look for?

Re: the PM thing, Kate just corrected me, I didn't realise you had to have a number of posts to PM someone.