Hi Aries, that's great news about your 28 day cycle. All the very very best of luck working out what is best for you re timing of TTC. If you feel like reading something, there is a booklet on the SIDS and Kids website about chosing when to TTC Sids and Kids

The grief is really so difficult. In a way I felt worse than ever at around 4 months after Luca died. Now, just over 6 months on, I still have some very difficult days and try to deal with them by 'carving out time to grieve' as I read was helpful early on. One thing that makes me feel a little better is trying to think of the sad days as an opportunity to feel love for Luca and remember him. I don't think there's any one way to deal with grief. You might have gotten some positives out of going back to work early, as well as difficulties. I hope the week off is very healing for both of you and really refreshes your relationship with one another too. It's hard work regaining hope for the future.

Cheryl, thanks for looking at my chart for me. I had cramps today, so I hope I ovulated today even though the temps aren't normal. I'll see what happens over the next few days. Can't do anything about it anyway!

Bec, hope you get better soon. I get worse cramps with AF now too. I've been trying to exercise as it's supposed to help. It's supposed to help lots of things but I still find it hard to get around to LOL.

xx Bec.