thread: TTC after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth #2 2010

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Hello Ladies

    I have been stalking for a while now but have not been ready to pop my head in til now.

    I had my 4th miscarriage (in 13 years) in June. I was meant to be 11.5 weeks but baby had passed away at 9 weeks. Two of my miscarriages were at about 5 weeks and the other one was another missed m/c at 9 weeks (baby had passed at 6 weeks).
    I also have had two beautiful babies in between all of these losses so i know (and am so grateful!) that my body CAN do it. I have had some testing to see if i have some other problem but so far everything has come back normal.
    We are TTC again. My DH is just about to start working away so it may prove difficult to get the timing right but we will see how we go. I was a bit worried about Asherman's as well Suzie, as after my last D&C they said i had a small fibroid on my uterus and they could also see some "white spots" which they couldn't explain and didn't go into further.. i don't think they were very experienced sonographers so, after doing some reading, i think i should probably get that looked at again.

    I am so sorry to read of all of your losses and really hope that in time you all have beautiful, healthy bubbas in your arms. Life is so cruel sometimes but it also can be so rewarding.
    Goodluck to you all and i look forward to getting to know you.

    Kym

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    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    1,874

    Stoked - Welcome. Hope your stay on the TTC rollercoaster this time around is brief and you get your bfp and get to hold your new bubba in your arms soon.. and I am sorry for the loss of your babies.

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    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    1,638

    Oh Suz, That is much calmer...and i feel calmer for you too. Thank goodness you feel supported. I think i got a bit mad for you. I was angry that you are going through this after everything. I think you know exactly what you need. You are so right...i forgot about that side of things...the experts available. And wow a connection to Perth too. That is synchronicity at it's best. I am sure you are in brilliant hand and I can't wait to go on the journey with you at another time. I too foudn it hard to be in here at some points when everyone was falling pregnant so easily. So I totally understand hun. I wish you the very best and hope you have beautifully healing surgeries. I hope you get to go through another pregnancy. Good LUck sweety.
    Boy I miss the UK and so glad you are in London. Oh and ...mega cool re the private cover...we didn't have that however in emergency situations...you tend to get the best- as all the drs have to do time with NHS if i remember rightly.

    Good luck sweety and catch you soon in anther time and place...xoxoxo again apologies for my little freak out!


    Stoked- Welcome hun and so sorry to find you here. Sorry you had to say goodbye to your bubbas too soon. I see you had a homebirth- I am envious. How lucky you are. I hope you are not here for long hun. Welcome and good luck. Hope you also find some answers re the ashermans and white spots. That sounds s bit different hey?

    Linda- Sorry you have had such a hard time and such heartache. I can't help you with any advice for those sorts of things. My experiences have been different. But I wish you much luck and may you have the baby you deserve hun.

    Dory- love, hope you are feeling well today and BP is behaving itself. xoxo

    AFM- CD 11 EWCM present and all action stations in this house. Fingers cross full moon has some special magic for us this month. xoxoxo

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    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    1,874

    Gi - baby dancing in the light f the full moon.... superb. Loving day 11 and the EWCM.... all the best and thinking of you both. Now don't be on here too much when you have something much more important to be doing.....hehe

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    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Thanks for the welcome

    Gigi, my homebirth was the most amazing experience of my life! I would love for every woman to be able to experience it! However, due to a big bleed and retained products after having my bub, and also retained products AFTER my d&c after the m/c, i may not be able to have another homebirth, but i have my fingers crossed that i will be accepted into the program again and that eveything will go well. I couldn't imagine having a baby in the hospital again.. seems a bit strange now! Goodluck with the BDing! With the full moon tonight might just be the night! Fingers crossed..

    I have to say to you and Dory, you are both lovely ladies, you always know the right words to say xx

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    1,638

    Hi Girls and I will give more to personals a little bit later. Sorry for the rush.

    DORY...Thinking of you and your beautiful Sophie today. You have been on my mind and we will light a little candle that will burn all day for her. I hope you are doing ok and resting with a big cake in front of you, a birthday tune and a few tears of joy and sadness. I bet your little angel was sitting on your pillow this morning with a huge grin on her face...knowing how special her mumma is. I know today must have such a mix of feelings for you...and i am thinking of you sweety. oxxo

    Will be back later for all else. I want to ravage my husband one more time before he goes to work!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    1,874

    Gi - thanks sweetie, that you thought of us today means a lot. And hope both you and DH enjoyed the ravashing...

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    California
    46

    hi

    Thanks Dory! How is everyone doing.Im still in the waiting period right now.It seems to be going ok,trying to stay busy and not thinka bout it too much. bye,linda

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    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Sydney
    185

    Well I got my BFP yesterday and a darker line again this morning!!!
    I'm excited and it feels right this time but I'm still very nervous as I still have cramps on and off. The spotting has stopped so it must have been implant bleeding. Gosh I hope this one sticks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!