thread: TTC after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth #2 2010

  1. #271
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    Apr 2010
    California
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    hi

    Thanks Dory! How is everyone doing.Im still in the waiting period right now.It seems to be going ok,trying to stay busy and not thinka bout it too much. bye,linda

  2. #272
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Well I got my BFP yesterday and a darker line again this morning!!!
    I'm excited and it feels right this time but I'm still very nervous as I still have cramps on and off. The spotting has stopped so it must have been implant bleeding. Gosh I hope this one sticks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. #273
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    Dec 2008
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    Congrats Powelly!!!! Way to go hun! I had AF like cramping for 2 weeks after my FET so it was the embie latching on. I still felt like AF was gonna come even though I had a strong BFP!! GL with your pg hun, wishing you all the very best!!

    GL Linda with your cycle, hope you get your BFP too!

    Hi to all, and big congrats to Dory again, enjoy your precious baby cuddles & give your little Hannah a big cuddle from me!

    B xxx

  4. #274
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    Jun 2007
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    Powelly...that vent must have done you some good hun. hat is fantastic news. Good on you! You can breath a little easier now hun. Go forth and conquer! xoxox
    Oh it looks like i need to go and see birth announcements.
    Hi all, still too busy to be in here for any length of time. xoxo

  5. #275
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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
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    Hi all

    Powelly - congratulations hun! That's fantastic news - I am so excited for you

    Gigi - sorry to hear that you have had a tough month hun. Hope this next one is better for you. Take care

    Linda - hope you are doing ok and that AF has stayed away.

    Dory - congratulations hun. Will have to duck over into BA to check out the official news (thanks Beata!)

    AFM, day 2 today which is great. One more step closer! Now to get aligned with my donor. Keep your FX for us!

    oxo

  6. #276
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
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    HI All,

    Powelly- I am doing a happy BFP dance for you ..........go on, hang in little one!

    Gigi- Look after you.......

    Linda- I hope it works. Keep positive thinking.

    Dory- YYYYYAAAAAAHHHHOOOOO. Hannah is a LOVELY name and I am sure she's beautiful. Enjoy those cuddles and have a wonderful set of first times with your girl.

    AFM- Tears and upset. CD 35 & AF arrived today. Before my baby I was 28 days on the dot. Last month was 33 days , now this arrrrggghhhh. I didn't test as I was enjoying the fantasy. I guess I am meant to be a parent without children. I decided to give IVF a miss this month. Hubby has hardly spoken to me. I feel like I've really let him down..........I am going to have to try again.....One more natural month then IVF. I am only 7 months since my Ellen died and I really am not up to this but too old to wait.......

  7. #277
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    Apr 2009
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    Sneaks in..... Huge Congrats Powelly!! How exciting!!
    and a big hello to everyone else and sending you all lots of Sneaks out......

  8. #278
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    Jun 2007
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    Oh Kate hun, I am so sorry. I hear your pain hun. It is horrible to have the pressure over you and be needing more time. Take a couple of days holiday from thinking about it all...build up your reserves again hun and then go for gold!
    Thinking of you. xoxo

  9. #279
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Thanks all for your lovely messages and good wishes. I'm still not celebrating just yet, might wait til I have this bub in my arms before I start getting excited :-)

    Kate - pressure is awful. I have time on my side yet felt the intense pressure to give my son a sibling before he was too "old". I know that sounds silly but the pressure is real. I couldn't imagine how hard it must be for you having to push ahead when emotionally you aren't ready. Be gentle to yourself.

    Gi, I'm sorry you are having a tough month. We all have em but it doesn't make it any easier does it.

    Chez - Good luck and fingers x'd for you!

    To everyone I have missed, hugs and thinking of you.

    :-)

  10. #280
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Hi ladies,

    Sorry I was so hasty in my last post, here goes some more persies....

    Gigi, I'm sorry the wich arrived!!! Hoping next month is 'it' hunni!! Hope you're feeling a bit better now big hugs xxxxx

    Linda, GL in your 2 WW!!

    Cherryl, keeping my fingers crossed for you too hun. Every day you are one step closer to realising your dream. Can't wait for it to happen! You go girl!!!!

    Kate, I'm sorry the ugly wich arrived If IVF is the only option, so be it hun. Without IVF I wouldn't have my beautiful bubbie. I found the treatment pretty straight forward, I had a much harder time accepting it was our only option and we couldn't have babies naturally. Big hugs hun XX

    Hi to everyone else in here, spreading lots and lots of baby dust for everyone!!

    B xxx

  11. #281
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Hi Guys - I'm not sure things are going so well. I stopped spotting on Saturday and then when I got up this morning there was brown when I wiped (sorry for TMI). Not sure if the cramps I have are in my head or something starting. I don't know what to do. I feel silly going to the doctor and asking for a blood test. I just hope it's not happening again :-( I feel so anxious.

  12. #282
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    Jun 2007
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    Oh hun, rest up and take care. I am sure it will be ok hun and this will all be a distant memory for you. I really hope so. This is not easy sweet, hang in there. Love and many big hugs. Thinking of you and hoping with all my heart. xoxoxo

  13. #283
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
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    Powelly,
    Hang in there. See a Dr or get a blood test if it makes you feel better. Rest, read, and be positive.
    I'm thinking of you.
    K

  14. #284
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Thanks Kate and Gi - I'm hanging in there...just! Still got a back ache and the lightest of light spotting. I've googled way too much today about ectopics, miscarriage etc so that didn't help much. I guess time will tell and that's the hardest thing. I'm scared about what the morning will bring :-( Your support has been so wonderful, thank you.

  15. #285
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    Powelly, sleep well gorgeous girl...you are growing a bubba in there. I am sure of it. Google is a blastered thing hey...a blessing and a curse I am sure...all in one go. Sending you sweet dreams and a uneventful morning .xoxox

  16. #286
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Thanks Gi. Well the night was long and painful as the cramps waved in. And this morning came the heavy bleeding and the buckets full of tears. I can't believe it. I was so sure this was the one. I'm freaked out now that it's 2 in a row, similar timing. Feeling sad, angry, robbed. Off to work. I can't sit around feeling like this :-(

  17. #287
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
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    Powelly,
    I shed tears for you this morning. I know the feelings. I don't know exactly how you feel but I know what that loss feels like. My thoughts are with you. Think positive about this. Look forward not back. Know we are all with you in this
    Kate

  18. #288
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry I wish I could give you a huge hug, and make it all better. I'm sorry this is happening to you. I would also recommend getting a BT to see what is happening exactly and talk to a doc to see if it could be something very simple that can be fixed, IF there is a problem. There might not be which could be more frasturating, but at least you're making a step in the right direction to find out if there is something that can be done.

    Big big hugs and I'm thinking of you sweets.

    Beata xxx

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