thread: TTC after Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/Stillbirth after the 1st trimester ~Jan #2

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  1. #1
    kirsty Guest

    Hiya lovely ladies, last thread is here

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    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Sydney
    459

    Hi again everyone.
    Bec G - Thanks for sharing your story of Charlotte. It made me sad to hear they were telling you all that stuff during labour, as if you didn't have enough to worry about. I am sure she was beautiful, but I was the same, i was afraid of what she would look like. One of my first reactions when they asked me if I wanted to see her was that I couldn't cos if she looked like my son it would make it so much harder. Turns out she did. My only pics are the hospital ones too, but I am so glad I have them now. And I like you get through by knowing that their daddy's saw them.

    Lynn - Good luck with your results tommorrow. And you make sure you stalk your doc all day til you get those results. I'm sure that you won't get into too much trouble if it's your first stalking offense

    Dream - Thanks for your words. As you said about sometimes having too much info, I think what I did wrong was look into too many different things instead of waiting to find out about my own circumstances iykwim. I too like to know the details, I think this will make me more aware in my next pregnancy and you're right, ask the Dr's more questions. And yes, I have been here more, cant stop me now

    Spring - Glad to hear you had a great time on the harbour, lucky you! So do you think the rello's bought your excuses for staying away from the champers?? Don't worry, you'll be celebrating soon enough. Not sure if I missed something in a previous post, but why does hubby have to go to Canberra? Does he work there? Hope you're OK without him. You don't realise how much you need them til they go huh? (But don't tell them that )

    Mel - I hope you're feeling OK. That's really beautiful about Barney.

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    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    sydney
    142

    Hi all you wonderful women,

    Hope today today has been kind to you all, its seems we need some+++vibes in here.

    Lynn- Been thinking about you, we went down and had fish & chips on the beach, theres a half moon over the sea and there was just a slight breeze, I thought of your pome about the angels....I think all our babies were out tonight, playing in the breeze and soft moon light and I did have a smile......for all of us. How was dinner? did you have a drink? Good luck with bt results will talk later.

    Mel - Hope your feeling better tonight, thats one of our favourite songs, as I said to lynn tonight was special...I was thinking about all of us down there.

    Spring - What a great day by the sounds of it! good job with the passing the champ!! I always say that the medication im on you cant drink with....My close girlfriends are cathing on but now I might try your one next time. Where did you go on the harbour? where there fireworks lastnight? Hope tomorrow is not so tough and DH is home before you know it!

    Bailey - Im glad your here more! Im not sure if it was you or Bec that lived in the E/S I could pick you up if need be, just let me know.

    Bec - Hope your had a good weekend.

    Clare - How you feeling? ms eased up any yet

    Kirsty -Im dido with the girls please pass on my thoughts to deb we do miss her so much in here She said so many beautiful things to me when I lost the plot, I hope she feels our love beening sentxxxxx. When do you go back and get your test results?

    I read through the post but had to put DS to bed in between so Ive missed where I was upto.....so if I missed anyone Im so sorry. A weird thing happen tonight DS told us that he was waiting in heaven with God till we got married so he could come down into my tummy, He knew that when daddy was born and then mummy that we would be the ones he picked and just had to wait, he wanted to know what took so long!!! but when I put him to bed he asked why his sister or brother arnt here yet......I have bumps all over me at the moment......do they know so much more then us? Anyway DH is off playing with some bluetooth thing for his car and needs me to help...of course so Ill calll back later if its not to late....Feds just won the tennis!!

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    clare076 Guest

    Hi ya girls

    Firstly, Deb thinking of you hun. Hope to see you in here again as soon as you are ready.

    Just a quick post, it has been a very emotional day so far. I went to work today for the 3rd last time and got greeted by all these staff members saying "ohhh I hear you're pregnant again" I just burst into tears. I didn't want people to know, especially until we have all the tests done. We haven't even told family yet and my boss goes and tells half the staff that that is the reason I am leaving. To make matters worse, none of them know about Max, and they are all talking like this is my 2nd baby not my 3rd. I mean I know I lost Max early in the 2nd tri, but it still hurts that my little man is not acknowledged. Well I lost the plot and amidst tears told them all very bluntly that they shouldn't have been told and no this is not my second baby, I have a girl and a boy already!

    So I get home and we have a bush fire close to our house, DP and I got in a huge fight (well he started yelling and swearing and called me a fool!) because I asked him if he had upped the house insurance. Of course he hadn't and wasn't happy that I had disrupted the cricket.:eek:

    So now I am laying in bed feeling very sorry for myself, peed off with DP (I am refusing to talk to him now, no one calls me a fool and gets away with it) I am having major cramps, m/s and the silly travel bands have irritated the skin on my wrists

    Oh what will tomorrow bring :icon_question: