Just a quick one from me. Sorry for no persies.

NT scan went well. T21 risk is 1 in 6200 which is apparently the risk of a 15 year old. Very different to my maternal age risk of 1 in 140! Bub was bumping around. All looks normal so far, though it's too early to tell re: genetic issues. If the T21 risk had been 1 in 300 or lower, we would have gone for a cvs as we would have done that anyway. As it is, we'll skip it and keep hoping everything is OK.

Now I suppose we'll come out of the closet. How scary!

I know you ladies will understand - it's weird feeling happy about this and still grieving our little boy. We'll take the good news, but that sadness will always be there.