TTC after Recurrent Miscarriage/Stillbirth or Loss after the 1st trimester SEPT/OCT07

[CeCeSays]

Klee- i was typing while you were posting... why shouldnt you post that here? Being pregnant in no way erases your loss of Pheobe. I can think of nowhere better to be when the fear sets in. You all hardly know me and my crazy ways but you have made me... some daft Texan... feel cared after. I just want you to take a moment to breathe in and wrap yourself in new beginings. I know you must be terrified and elated all at the same time. But I, for one, am not even close to upset by reading about how you feel. God willing, we will all be in your boat someday. I am sorry for your cousin and rooting for you! Hugs!
CeCe

[shereejoy]

Cliff notes????

Oh and also what was that sperm meets egg conception theory????

[~StarBright~]

Hello Lovely ladies!!!

Well, AF arrived this morning. But i am ok- I have a plan!! Next month is my month!! (Still need to change ticker)
I am thinking that my cycle might be longer than first thought, around 32 days, not 28 like when i was on the pill. So i have my thermometer and my opk's so i have something to keep me occupied!!
Plus i have a big week at work this week - all the bosses are away, so i have plenty to keep me busy!!

Just wanted to share something with everyone- A very good friend of mine just celebrated her Angel Son Ben's 21st Birthday last week. She was the lady who gave me the Baby Castle Poem i posted a month or so ago. Ben died a few days after he was born- they dont know exactly what happened, but he got very sick and he died. After loosing him, she made a pact with herself that she was going to have 5 kids, - well she did!! (Including him) She had a daughter about a year later, then two more girls then her youngest son. She is one of the best mums i know and in 21 years her family have never forgotten Ben or what he means to her and her husband. Her children all know about him and they all celebrated his 21st Birthday together. She still gets upset some days, and i know she will always wonder what he would be doing now.... but she is gratefull that he is not forgotten. So Happy 21st Ben!!

I will be abck to do personals later!!
StarBright
xox

[shereejoy]

So sorry about AF starbright. We can be belly buddies next month together.

Oh and happy 21st Birthday Ben, what a lovely story......

[Mel1977]

SB - I am sorry that AF arrived, BUT its all in the plan. As Deb once said to me, think about it like its only 2 weeks until you can try again (O time) and I will be having my OPU and ET in about 1 and 1/2 weeks which means we are almost in line... maybe thats a sign?

~ Happy 21st Birthday Ben ~

[Mel1977]

SB - Anything to report?

Klee - Hmmm I have to admit that I sort of agree with you on the MIL sitch. I dont think it is anyones place to come into someones home (family or not) and rearrange things. Fine, suggest something might look good here or there but you dont just do it. I wouldnt worry about DF, men tend to stick up for their mummy's a fair bit - you know the whole she was only trying to help thing - but its still your home. The only thing I would say is dont argue it with her cause then you and DF will just argue and you will get stressed out, just put everything back where it was and say that you set up your home the way you did cause you like it that way. But no, you are not being unreasonable, grrrrrrr! Sorry again about your cousin, I hope she is ok And CeCe is right, why shouldnt you post here? You will have a lynch mob after your @rse if you disappear

Ellie - Good luck with everything, hope it all goes well and you can get back to your "plans"

CeCe - I havent heard of the sperm meets egg plan either, so no havent tried it. Spotting can apparently occur approximately 8-12 days after O when you have conceived, so dont give up hope yet. Good luck

SJ - Even 3 hour drives with a toddler is an experience LOL, your brave

to everyone else.