to Judy, Lynn & Aunty M.

Smiley - Some people are so insensitive aren't they and don't know hardships hey! Oh and I had a subchoronic bleed with Lachlan. It was terrible but amazingly he is still here. I bled from 5-8 weeks, mainly brown sludge. Then nothing. Went for a scan at 11 weeks to confirm all was ok, and yep all was fine, so told everyone that afternoon, then we travelled away for the weekend that weekend, went to bed and woke at 3am in a pool of red blood. I absolutely freaked, went to the loo and passed a clot the size of my palm and as thick as my thumb. It just gussed out of me, I even salvaged it from the bottom of the loo, I was so scared it was the baby. Spent 2 nights in hospital, but all was well. I was put on bed rest for 3 weeks, and at 15 weeks I finally stopped bleeding. Just can't believe he is still here really. Also my first pregnancy from the u/s's they diagnosed a molar pregnancy with the twins but then when they tested the remnants at my d&c it was confirmed not to be THANKGOD!

CeCe - GL and hope the 2ww isn't too long for you.

Flowerchild - Thank you for the information, but I think I will just go with the flow for now and try to read my own body signs as I don't want to freak out with opk's as when I charted and temped it was so stressful. I am sure I will change my mind IF time goes on too long though. Thanks again.