Spring, If you are comfortable in here my love then you fit... I wish no body fitted any criteria for being in here... This isn't an exclusive place, just a place where women like you and me and Kirsty and Mel and all the other wonderful women can feel we can just let it all hang out...
I am so sorry to hear about your lump and so relieved you will have an u/s today. It is most likely that it will be clear but you are absolutely right - you have enough on your plate without this... I will be thinking of you and please come back and let us know...

Kirsty - I agree wholeheartedly with what Spring said about men and their grief. I think part of the key is allowing yourself to feel and go through whatever it is you are and allow him to do the same. He can never be you and you he and sometimes we just have to accept the differences and leave it at that. I am so sorry that things are like this for now. But you know that there is ALWAYS a rainbow ALWAYS.
I know we will have our babies Kirsty... I am sorry your appointment has been moved - that makes it so very hard. The waiting... Michelle has given some wonderful advice (as always) you do need to seek out those supports now. It's great that you have a counsellor but another friend or someone you can turn to when it gets tough. It WILL get tough. I did it a day at a time. I went through my last pregnancy week to week. The next one will be the same. It is never going to be that breezy easy pregnancy that others have. :hugs: Kirsty.

Michelle, I understand what you are saying. For me I feel the same. The fear of NOT having another child outweighs the fear of going through pregnancy again...