auntie m - its hard to relax isn't it, maybe find something to take your mind off it, knitting or something. easier to say than do i know, last month was our first month of actually ttc you know with opk's and stuff to help pinpoint and I'm already ready to give up, i don't know that i'm actually mentally prepared for the let downs, i've decided this month I am going to start running, to get my mind off it, i know its a bit too physical but i need to get the stress out as well