Mel: I have to admit, packing up Harry's nursery was one of the hardest days for me. It was so final. I spent most of it on the floor holding his things sobbing. That was back in January so I think I might have been a bit more together if I did it now. I am not unpacking the nursery this time. My Mum and Dad and Best mate are going to set it up while I am hospital, I just can face doing it. It is such a symbolic thing having to unpack everything. Althoug it gave me so much comfort going into Harry's nursery and talking to him after losing Harry, I just want someone else to set it up for me this time. I think if you pack it up when you are moving then that might be a good idea, it is a reason for doing it and if you get to your new place and decide that you want to unpack it then you can. There are no rules about how to deal with this, you just do what feels right for you and DH at the time.
Anyway, my Mum and Dad are here so I will just be quick. Only 4 sleeps now until DH is home and not a moment too soon. Mum said to say hi to you all. Although she has never met you she says she feels like she knows you and said she is so grateful that I have come to know you all. Mel, she said to tell you that she was sending you extra special *good luck* vibes this month.
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