thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after 1st Trimester June 07 #2

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    Oct 2006
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    Hi Everybody

    Bailey - I am with Spring, you deserve some sympathy And about being half-a**ed, I never used to be but everything I do lately is... you should see my house

    Spring - Glad you have had some relaxing time with DH. Is he starting back at work soon or has he got a little bit of time off? Hope his cousin behaves himself and keeps his nose out iykwim. I cannot believe you had the strength to do Harry's nursery on your own, you are very brave. Read below, I am not even nearly as brave as you! Good luck with your scan tomorrow, I am sure everything will be fine but make sure you pop in and let us know anyway. Say hi to lil Spring for me while your there

    Well we chickened out We kept putting it off and eventually I just said to DH do you still want to do it and he said no not really so we decided to leave it today. I just dont have the motivation to do it and I have a headache and really just cant be stuffed. (Bailey - remember that half-a**ed thing LOL). So we have decided we will still do it but just not today. Knowing us one day we will just wake up and say ok today is the day and do it then. Maybe it is just not something we can plan. I dunno maybe I am just making excuses for my weakness.

    Anyway, no doubt I will be back later. DH is hooked on PS2 atm so I am a PS2 widow - he says oh well thats makes up for him being a BB widower for the last 9 months LMAO. Point taken

    Love Mel

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    Oct 2006
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    Deb - Sorry forgot to reply to your post... I am booked into have a laparoscopy on 28th June which is I think 5 days or so after AF is due (obviously booked that far away so we can make 100% sure I am not pg). If he finds anything wrong he will fix it while he is in there, he said it is possible to have adhesions after childbirth which can affect fertility, he said he will also make sure there are no underlying infections (highly unlikely without any other symptoms apparently) or ovarian damage, or blockages of the tubes. He thinks that the laparoscopy will not show anything but that we have to make sure of this before starting IVF. So if it shows no abnormalities the cycle after that will be IVF. It is so frustrating cause I just cant get my head around that fact that I have this infertility problem now when I fell pregnant on the pill (admittedly I stuffed up one month but you know). Anyway, at this point I will do whatever I have to get that baby - except keep trying month after month cause I just cant do it anymore.