Deb - Sorry forgot to reply to your post... I am booked into have a laparoscopy on 28th June which is I think 5 days or so after AF is due (obviously booked that far away so we can make 100% sure I am not pg). If he finds anything wrong he will fix it while he is in there, he said it is possible to have adhesions after childbirth which can affect fertility, he said he will also make sure there are no underlying infections (highly unlikely without any other symptoms apparently) or ovarian damage, or blockages of the tubes. He thinks that the laparoscopy will not show anything but that we have to make sure of this before starting IVF. So if it shows no abnormalities the cycle after that will be IVF. It is so frustrating cause I just cant get my head around that fact that I have this infertility problem now when I fell pregnant on the pill (admittedly I stuffed up one month but you know). Anyway, at this point I will do whatever I have to get that baby - except keep trying month after month cause I just cant do it anymore.