Bailey & Mel - you girls are too funny!

Spring - I'm sorry that you have this decision to make and that it is causing probs between you and DH. It is supposed to be the happiest time but it is also hard given what has happened to you guys. When it comes to MIL it is a tough decision especially because what your MIL has done to you over the past few months. I agree that none of this is fair. I hope that you and DH can work out what to do and I hope by now you have told your family the great news. How did it go? I bet they are just so happy for you.

Well I have had my fair share of MIL issues too. I was really upset the other night and she happened to call right in the middle of it. DH was out at soccer and I was just having a really good cry with my puppies. She came over which I thought would be good seeing as though my mum is not here right now. I can't believe how different she is to my mum and how differently she responds. Anyway I won't get into too much but she just doesn't say the right things. She told me that there are other people suffering in the world WTF!!!!!!!!! I bet they aren't worried about me right now. I just don't find her supportive and it feels like she has no idea of what I am going through. I know you can't imagine it but she just doesn't get it!!! Anyway I had a phone call from a shrink yesterday. My MIL took it upon herself to discuss ME and Cooper with a shrink and asked them to call me - I couldn't believe it! She said to me I think we need to have a talk. NO WE DON'T!!!! I just told the lady (politely) that I didn't walk to talk to her because I have already spoken with a counsellor and I don't feel like I can get anymore out of it and that I find it helps talking with people who KNOW what I am feeling and KNOW what I am going through. I told my MIL this so I can't believe that she went and got a shrink for me! She must think I am a complete nutcase and need help or something. Anyway that is enough of me whinging about my MIL......

Onto the other news - I had my BT this morning and they called with my results and said that it doens't look like there is much going on at the moment so I will go back on Wednesday to have another BT to see what is going on then - hopefully a bit more than what is happening now. I also went to acupuncture this morning. I thought hey it can't hurt so why not. Hopefully this can also help bring O a bit sooner.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend - its a bit quiet in here so you must be.

luv & hugs
Lynn