Hi Tess, I must have just missed your post.

I don't know much about incompetent cervix but are there any tests that they can do to help you get a clearer picture about it and chances of it happening again. Did you deliver your eldest son pre-term? It might be worth seeing a specialist just so that you can get some answers.

Whatever you decide to do, stick around, even if you are not going to TTC for a while, we will miss you if you go.

Luv Spring