thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the First Trimester

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2006
    686

    Why does life seem to keep throwing more and more s@@@ at us - I just went to drs with DH cause he has this suspicious lesion type thing on the side of his thigh/buttock area which I only noticed on him last night. So the dr said he didnt want to touch it and referred him on to a plastic surgeon. I called one of the guys in the rooms I just finished up work in and his secretary got him in on Thursday at 4.15pm. DH is really worried and has been quiet all day, especially now. He wont really talk to me about it, and I wish he would. He has admitted he is worried and I went to give him a cuddle and he let me but then tried to almost push me away, which he has never done before. I am really worried but have kind of pretended that I think everything will be fine. I keep thinking so negatively like everything else goes wrong, why not this?

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    Dec 2006
    922

    Thank you everyone for your birthday wishes. It was a tougher day than I had thought it would be....................nearly over. I managed to pull myself out of bed around 11 when my mum rang the door bell. I don't know how to describe how I am feeling, it is so hard. Well I changed my sig (not sure I can get used to it!)

    I had my BT to check my prog levels so I will find out tomorrow what they are. I'm 9dpo so I am waiting for af to arrive any day but at the same time stocked up on pg tests! Don't know why, I know there isn't really a chance this month, but thought I would test just for the fun of it.

    Mel - I have been thinking about you and Nicholas all day. I hope you are holding up ok. I know today would have been a hard day. I sat here reading your poem crying, it is absolutely beautiful. Nicholas is a very special boy because he has a wonderful mummy. I'm sorry that af arrived yesterday and I hope she is treating you ok. I hope your DH is ok and will be thinking of you guys on Thursday. I'm sure everything will be fine. You are such a strong person and this is another hurdle that I know you will get over. It isn't fair that these hurdles are put in front of you all the time but I know you will get over them time and time again. Sending you the biggest

    Bailey - I have been thinking of you and Asha today. I hope you are doing ok. I'm sorry that the wicked witch arrived, I hope she is being kind. Take care :hugs:

    Nat - thanks for your call today, sorry I missed you. I will give you a call tomorrow.

    Spring - how are you going today? I have been thinking about you and lil Spring today. I hope your boys didn't keep you up all night barking. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and I hope you have a nice day with DH. It will be great to see him.

    Today has been a very emotional day for many of us, so I think we need a big one of these

    Luv & hugs
    Lynn
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    Oct 2006
    686

    Oh Lynn - I am so sorry today has been so hard As you know you have been in my thoughts and I just wish I could do something for you that would make your day better, but I know the only thing you want I cannot give you - I wish with every ounce of my being I could

    An I will definitely be in that