Mel: Don't beat yourself up too much about telling the lady at work about Nicholas. You did what felt right at the time. I am sure she only made the comment about his size because she might not have known what stage babies are at the time. I had a friend say 'he looks like a real baby'. At first I thought WTF, then I realised that what she had pictured Harrison would look like in her mind wasn't what he actually looked like. I was upset at first then just realised she has probably never seen a stillborn child and didn't have children herself so I forgave her.

As I said, we do what feels right at the time, as you said you are only there for another Month so just hang in there and go back to being Mrs. Anonyimity.

Luv Spring