19wks preg with twins and got problems :(

[Traveller]

I'm so sorry the news has not been the greatest so far, and I hope the MRI scans give you some greater clarity into what you are facing. Such a scary time so all I can really do is send you a hug and let you know you are in my thoughts

trav
xx

[MummyNelly]

thanks everyone for ur support. I can honestly say it hasnt been the most enjoyable pregnancy as everytime things look up something else comes up. I dont live near family (my sister is half hr away but i hardly see her!) my mother and i dont talk, im close to my nan but shes 8hrs away and my dad is 14hrs away so im finding it hard at the moment. my husband has his dad and brother just around the corner. today especially im finding it hard and feel like i have no one to turn to for help. i hurt my back on the weekend and its still giving me hell so bending or anything like that even getting up hurts like hell and i have alot of housework to do. my husband helps out heaps but hes also been working alot so he can afford to have time off when need be.

[Baby Dreamtime]

MummyNelly, just wishing you the best, I hope you can find some support and hoping all goes well with your precious bubs xx

[MummyNelly]

we had the mri and another scan and the results werent good. have to go back in 2 1/2 weeks for more appointments and scan.

[Nai]

Nell, I have everything crossed that the girls are ok.

[nickle730]

Hi Mummy Nelly, I've been following your thread from the beginning. I'm sorry to hear that the MRI results were not what you (and we) were hoping for. I will be thinking of you and I hope your scan in two and a half weeks shows improvement.

[MummyNelly]

thanks everyone unfortunately i don't think it is possible to improve. The MRI showed the brain hasn't grown and looks shrivelled. Her head is alot smaller than the bigger bub and her brain still too small for her head. The specialist said its quite severe damage and she has Cerebral Palsy. We're seeing a paediatition who is a specialist in brain damage and we will get more info on what to expect etc. If we didnt have the surgery to begin with then she wouldnt have survived this far yet having it has resulted in this. They cant say if it was b4, during or after surgery that she's been lacking in oxygen causing the damage. We still love her just as much and are lucky to have most ppl supportive of our decision not to terminate (i could never do that).

[Traveller]

I'm so sorry you have had this news MummyNelly. Have they given you any indication of when you will deliver?

[GlitterMum]

I have just read your thread MummyNelly and I am sooo sorry to hear your news. My heart is breaking for you.
Words cannot describe what you must be going through.

I just wanted to say I am thinking of you